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 FWB got pregnant, she wants to keep it, FWB got pregnant, she wants to keep it

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TSpeoplelikeme
post Mar 30 2017, 05:39 PM

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QUOTE(nebula87 @ Mar 30 2017, 05:18 PM)
This is Cons for having FWB. first, why you go raw?!

One day probably your "son" will ask, where is my father, and not sure will she said the truth or saying you left them...and you are very bad person.

If she really wanna have the child, why don't you let her have it. and ask her to promise don't find you in the future.

TS, why dont you both be together?
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I do not love her that much and the thought of being with her for the rest of my live scares me
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post Mar 30 2017, 05:39 PM

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QUOTE(Aftermaths @ Mar 30 2017, 05:31 PM)
Ask for more opinion surrounding you, if lucky there will be a wise person to help you.
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That is what I really really hope would happen
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post Mar 30 2017, 05:40 PM

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QUOTE(peoplelikeme @ Mar 30 2017, 05:13 PM)
Meet FWB 6 months ago, both of us are single but choose to have "no string attached" relationship because I do not want anything serious and I do not find myself in love with her.

She is now 5 weeks pregnant and wants to keep the baby but I do not. I am not mentally and financially prepared for this and we are too young for this, we are only around 25 years old.

I have tried to talk to her on the reason I do not want this but she insisted on having it and even said that she would do it alone if I do not want it that much. I do not wish the child to grow up without a father because I come from a single parent family and I do not wish a child to go through that but I do not want to get married with her because I do not love her that much to spend the rest of my life.

I know I still can be the parent of the child even without marrying her but still, the psychical, mental & financial stress of having a unplanned child is not a joke. Not to mentioned how much it will effect the child having to explain to his/her friends why they parents are living apart.


I really do not know what to do.
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shud have thought of that before u planted that seed bro...

berani shoot berani tanggung bro...

now u scared of the stress physically, mentally and financially?
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QUOTE(steadystream @ Mar 30 2017, 05:30 PM)
u sure is yours?
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Unfortunately, no real way to find out until the baby is born.
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post Mar 30 2017, 05:41 PM

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QUOTE(peoplelikeme @ Mar 30 2017, 05:39 PM)
I do not love her that much and the thought of being with her for the rest of my live scares me
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people can change mar...

but your son, your dna cannot be changed ady...

did she loves/likes you?
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post Mar 30 2017, 05:42 PM

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QUOTE(kiasu6 @ Mar 30 2017, 05:40 PM)
shud have thought of that before u planted that seed bro...

berani shoot berani tanggung bro...

now u scared of the stress physically, mentally and financially?
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Too late to scared huh
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post Mar 30 2017, 05:42 PM

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QUOTE(peoplelikeme @ Mar 30 2017, 05:39 PM)
That is what I really really hope would happen
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If you happen to have rich relative whereby they have no children.

Maybe try ask them to be God parent to this baby? whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif
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post Mar 30 2017, 05:43 PM

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QUOTE(Aftermaths @ Mar 30 2017, 05:42 PM)
If you happen to have rich relative whereby they have no children.

Maybe try ask them to be God parent to this baby?  whistling.gif  whistling.gif  whistling.gif
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most probably the relatives are rich people they have no children la.... biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(nebula87 @ Mar 30 2017, 05:41 PM)
people can change mar...

but your son, your dna cannot be changed ady...

did she loves/likes you?
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I believe she likes me more than I do, can't say for her.

I am really afraid if it do not work out and we have to go through divorce in the end...
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post Mar 30 2017, 05:44 PM

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QUOTE(DatukD @ Mar 30 2017, 05:39 PM)
babies are a blessing !!!!

and i believe in karma.
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It actually is, but not on the wrong timing
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post Mar 30 2017, 05:45 PM

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I have no idea how people can just decide to go for abortion.

But well, I am a nobody to judge anything.
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post Mar 30 2017, 05:45 PM

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QUOTE(peoplelikeme @ Mar 30 2017, 05:42 PM)
Too late to scared huh
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yeah...

u don wan to take the husband role, its between u and her...

but the baby is innocent. he/she didnt make this decision bro...
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post Mar 30 2017, 05:45 PM

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QUOTE(peoplelikeme @ Mar 30 2017, 05:40 PM)
Unfortunately, no real way to find out until the baby is born.
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how about this?
http://www.easydnamalaysia.com/prenatal-paternity-test/

get from a thread where ktard seeking for help after go raw with prostitute.
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post Mar 30 2017, 05:47 PM

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y no condom.
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post Mar 30 2017, 05:48 PM

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QUOTE(13etrayer @ Mar 30 2017, 05:45 PM)
how about this?
http://www.easydnamalaysia.com/prenatal-paternity-test/

get from a thread where ktard seeking for help after go raw with prostitute.
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Good to know, might come in handy
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post Mar 30 2017, 05:57 PM

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Be a man and be a good father to ur future child..
own up to it bro..
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post Mar 30 2017, 06:00 PM

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bro if u go raw pls dont pancut dalam...berani buat berani tanggung plus if u want her
to do abortion...might be complication for her for next pregnation ..
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post Mar 30 2017, 06:01 PM

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dapat anak is a blessing bro...


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post Mar 30 2017, 06:03 PM

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Everyone life are different.
There are younger people who had the same story as you but took the responsibility.

Definitely you are not ready for marriage life but do what you can to support her decision.
You can be single while supporting her and her baby.
There is still so many possibility.
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post Mar 30 2017, 06:08 PM

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QUOTE(peoplelikeme @ Mar 30 2017, 05:13 PM)
She is now 5 weeks pregnant and wants to keep the baby but I do not.
maybe her definition of 'benefits' is the baby.

congrats.

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