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Vaginismus, anyone experience it?
TSMs Americano L
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Mar 16 2017, 10:09 PM, updated 8y ago
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VaginismusVaginismus is a condition which inhibits or prevents a woman from engaging in vaginal penetration, either sexual intercourse, use of tampons or the penetration necessary for a gynecological examination. It is a spasm or a reflex rather like the automatic response which occurs when one’s hand touches a hot object and the arm flings itself away without any thought process involved. It is a serious condition as it makes sexual techniques and sexual intercourse extremely painful or even impossible. More sharing from women who have Vaginismus but they are from the western countries: http://www.refinery29.com/2014/07/71427/vaginismushttps://www.vice.com/en_au/article/what-its...-own-vagina-324http://jezebel.com/when-tight-becomes-too-...agin-16794853781. any women in Malaysia experience this...maybe also going through the treatments as well..mind to share your experience? 2. I wonder if gynae or any therapist centres provide such treatment for Vaginismus. 3. (for guys) if your gf/wife has this sexual dysfunctional order, what would you do? would you choose to stay or leave her to find other girls that hav no issues in having v-penetration This post has been edited by Ms Americano L: Mar 16 2017, 10:11 PM
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Hammox
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Mar 17 2017, 08:32 PM
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actually the first few times it is normal that it is hard to penetrate, some people i heard can take weeks. make sure you got use lubricants. also feeling anxious can make it harder. also, according to https://www.vaginismus.com/faq/ , it is treatable, so i guess for question 2, i think you should try inquire from a doctor or gynae. don't just keep to yourself, seek professional help! also, from my pov i feel your partner could have been more supportive, like helping to seek solutions and discussing things through rather than just leave you like that .
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TSMs Americano L
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Mar 20 2017, 08:58 AM
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QUOTE(Hammox @ Mar 17 2017, 08:32 PM) actually the first few times it is normal that it is hard to penetrate, some people i heard can take weeks. make sure you got use lubricants. also feeling anxious can make it harder. also, according to https://www.vaginismus.com/faq/ , it is treatable, so i guess for question 2, i think you should try inquire from a doctor or gynae. don't just keep to yourself, seek professional help! also, from my pov i feel your partner could have been more supportive, like helping to seek solutions and discussing things through rather than just leave you like that . I deciced to have wine to get me relaxed..
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Hammox
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Mar 20 2017, 09:13 PM
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QUOTE(Ms Americano L @ Mar 20 2017, 08:58 AM) I deciced to have wine to get me relaxed.. aww . how are things? any getting better?
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Blofeld
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Mar 21 2017, 09:27 AM
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It's caused by self-fulfilling prophecy
It's caused by teenage girls keep telling each other, "hey it's painful, u know" due to rumour, misinformation, ignorance, or due to religiosity, when it's not painful at all.
In the end, your mind makes it painful when it's not supposed to be painful.
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TSMs Americano L
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Mar 28 2017, 02:01 AM
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QUOTE(Blofeld @ Mar 21 2017, 09:27 AM) It's caused by self-fulfilling prophecy It's caused by teenage girls keep telling each other, "hey it's painful, u know" due to rumour, misinformation, ignorance, or due to religiosity, when it's not painful at all. In the end, your mind makes it painful when it's not supposed to be painful. You are right.. I am impacted
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jimbet1337
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Jan 7 2018, 12:08 PM
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QUOTE(Ms Americano L @ Mar 28 2017, 02:01 AM) You are right.. I am impacted Hi. Just following up. So, is your case actually Vaginismus or just mind psychology as described by Blofield?
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San chai
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Feb 2 2018, 12:13 PM
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Hi, i also suffering vaginismus 😣 Already married for 3 years.
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za phira
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Feb 13 2018, 08:20 PM
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QUOTE(San chai @ Feb 2 2018, 12:13 PM) Hi, i also suffering vaginismus 😣 Already married for 3 years. hello San chai , im too in the same situation, since 8 months , do you think there is surgery to resolve this problem ?
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MiLKTea
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Feb 22 2018, 01:05 PM
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Any professional help for this problem?
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San chai
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Feb 24 2018, 10:15 PM
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QUOTE(za phira @ Feb 13 2018, 08:20 PM) hello San chai , im too in the same situation, since 8 months , do you think there is surgery to resolve this problem ? Surgery is last option I think.. few option we can try 1. Kagel exercise 2. Self practice using dillator You can join us on fb secret group. I just found this group really helpful . Fb secret group : Vaginismus support Attached thumbnail(s)
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San chai
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Feb 24 2018, 10:20 PM
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QUOTE(MiLKTea @ Feb 22 2018, 01:05 PM) Any professional help for this problem? Join us - Fb secret group : vaginismus Support Vaginismus Support terdiri daripada wanita yang sedang menderita atau pernah menderita Vaginismus. Tujuan kumpulan sokongan in diwujudkan adalah untuk membolehkan ahli-ahli berkongsi Perubatan professional dikawasan mereka , untuk anjurkan perjumpaan, dan berbincang tentang keadaan masing-masing.
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San chai
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Feb 24 2018, 10:21 PM
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QUOTE(jimbet1337 @ Jan 7 2018, 12:08 PM) Hi. Just following up. So, is your case actually Vaginismus or just mind psychology as described by Blofield? Join us - Fb secret group : vaginismus Support Vaginismus Support terdiri daripada wanita yang sedang menderita atau pernah menderita Vaginismus. Tujuan kumpulan sokongan in diwujudkan adalah untuk membolehkan ahli-ahli berkongsi Perubatan professional dikawasan mereka , untuk anjurkan perjumpaan, dan berbincang tentang keadaan masing-masing.
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kllonely1
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Feb 24 2018, 10:21 PM
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QUOTE(Ms Americano L @ Mar 16 2017, 10:09 PM) VaginismusVaginismus is a condition which inhibits or prevents a woman from engaging in vaginal penetration, either sexual intercourse, use of tampons or the penetration necessary for a gynecological examination. It is a spasm or a reflex rather like the automatic response which occurs when one’s hand touches a hot object and the arm flings itself away without any thought process involved. It is a serious condition as it makes sexual techniques and sexual intercourse extremely painful or even impossible. More sharing from women who have Vaginismus but they are from the western countries: http://www.refinery29.com/2014/07/71427/vaginismushttps://www.vice.com/en_au/article/what-its...-own-vagina-324http://jezebel.com/when-tight-becomes-too-...agin-16794853781. any women in Malaysia experience this...maybe also going through the treatments as well..mind to share your experience? 2. I wonder if gynae or any therapist centres provide such treatment for Vaginismus. 3. (for guys) if your gf/wife has this sexual dysfunctional order, what would you do? would you choose to stay or leave her to find other girls that hav no issues in having v-penetration Mana video?
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Catlady83 P
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Dec 9 2019, 03:02 PM
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I heard this centre, Vibrance Pelvic Care Centre provides treatment for vaginismus in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Maybe you can check them out & ask for support. Can also contact them through whatsapp, 011-5938 5962. Hope this helps. https://vibrance.com.my/
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vaginismus survivor P
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Apr 8 2020, 09:02 PM
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Hi my name is ika i am vaginismus warrior more than 12years Now thankfull I am cured with dilator, I am selling dilators with free consultations until cure... u guys can like myfb vaginismus malaysia n myinsta Vaginismus_Malaysia thanks
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J1g54w
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Oct 6 2020, 11:48 AM
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my partner had it but managed to overcame it over time
but it's very important to make the woman very relaxed and comfortable before the deed
no tools, only used the natural way
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achong09
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Oct 16 2020, 08:11 AM
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oh gosh
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