1. you are reaching your 30? i think by this stage at the very least if all fails, you can find a job and move out and rent a place / room to live.
2. can you be independent? if no, then you have no right to complain.
3. cruel? yes of course it is! who is the one who feeds you after all? until you can be independent on your own, else just stay put, take it all in, and go away when u can stand on your own.
4. i believe that house is not your right? then you have no right to say who can or who cant live inside there with you. unless it is, then you have all the right to kick out whoever it is inside there.
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so let me be successful and i will leave this house and family eventually
no friend. life is cruel. this wont work in real life, especially in this level of your case. house is not yours, you object on your sis living with you because you are fine on your own living in someone's house, and ask to wait for you to become successful. no bro, the world doesnt work like that. harsh but its the truth. you should be grateful to even have a house to live in for free at your age.
you want to have a say, you go get your own house. work for it. earn it.
6. whatever you do and whether you are a good child or not, i guess heaven will be the judge in the end of the day. just do your part, and if it doesnt work, at least you know you done your part. unless you wanna be those kind of people who would try till their death (literally) just to be a good child in front of their ungrateful parents who didnt even care or bats an eye, then its your call.
i'm not trying to depress you or make you even more sad. i want you to wake up. look around you. look at the options and roads that you did not take / saw before. take actions, instead of putting it all in your heart. if not, you will forever stay this way.
so stand up, break that barrier of yours, do something instead of asking for it.
after write so long, then i suddenly remember, for all that i care, you could be a dupe.
so... meh