(I believe buyers have the right to pick what they wish to buy, but to an extent, it's not very ethical the way it's done here. You don't want this kinda buyer, right?)
PM'd me one day over an old topic that I haven't updated for a long time: 80gb hdd. (Which means i had already put it to use) Mentioned also he needs a PSU and I offered.
I was suppose to sell him a psu and hdd for 400 bucks plus shipping, it's already agreed. For starts, a summary: After much discussion, we agreed for 400 bucks as said above. He sent me a pm and sms asking if i can get both items to him by thursday, i replied "yes can" via sms so begins the conversation via pm below.
This fool decided to go ahead and make another deal for PSU, and I caught sight of that by accident with his happy post to cod with him or something. Incidentally I had already made my order for another PSU. Of course all that without informing me.
Getting to know this guy a little more... please read what he says "Just my assumptions"
1. I told him he must confirm then I can prepare the hard disk (Everyone realize hard disks hold data that you need to clear, right? Takes time?)
2. Asks me bank info, and yet don't pay.
3. Tells me he wants it FAST by Thursday and yet makes no confirmation.
4. Accuses me of not making confirmation when i said yes to his requirements.
5. His best assumption is that I weren't happy with him, because he knows I have every reason to be unhappy with him too. Right On!
6. Coulda at least inform me.
Dealing with this guy, I've lost the meaning of: "Confirmation, interest, yes, can and fast" .. maybe also "bank-in" Damn someone need to help me define that clear.
Lesson to myself: my big mistake is to react too quick with "confirmations".
Lesson to everyone: such a nuisance buyer exists.
No action is required. I am merely informing the public.
Waste of my time, I hope others won't waste theirs.
Thanks for reading.
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bro so u confirm i can get the items on thursday the latest? if confirm i will bank in the money....
update me, im preparing all for you now
waa dude, I thought Yesterday When i gave U messages, u r not seriously be able to get the items....Just my assumptions lah...so I decided To get another Psu from a forumer here as well..... But iam still willing to buy the hard disk from u.... d y still wanna sell it to me bro? i hope U dont get angry at me, Becoz iam seriously afraid i can t get the items on thursday.... so sorry yah...
of course im not happy, because i've already ordered 2 psus and paid in replacement for this.
i saw the acbel thread. i said i can get it to you by then... i replied sms.
i am making special arrangements so that it will be possible for you to receive it this thursday. it looks like im wasting my time, and effort.... (and money too)
tell me how you wanna resolve this.
yeah I know dude, but then When I first messaged u asking about whether i can get items on Thursday or not, U only replied " yes can " and I messaged U again asking about the details of PSu and hard disk, u didnt reply me..... at that time I was really kinda Worried though...seriously..>Due to shipping some more... i ve admitted as well my fault...but seriously I dunno how to resolve this....But Iam still willing to pay for the hard disk bro....
i never received a 2nd sms. i said i can get it to you by this thursday. both items.
worried about what, i did my part i said i can get it to you by this thursday, in fact i can send the psu today even, the harddisk is what i need to rearrange.
i dont appreciate the confirming part and not even informing me you dont want it anymore.
i may need to put this up in trade dispute. i dont want to do that, if you're any responsible, you should close your acbel deal.
im pissed that i've already ordered and made my investments already. if not for this, i wouldn't care.
anyways, you tell me what you're gonna do now, and ill react to it.
u know Why I was worried at that time? It was because U didnt reply my second message which U mentioned u didnt receive any second message but I saw from my phone It was clearly delivered To ur number...of course lah dude I have to be worried, This is the real matter where I gotta be careful due to shipping matter and the estimation time as well....
ok lah like this, since these two items are not for me myself but these are for my friend, and iam the one who is put a big responsibility by my friend for everything...I need some time to discuss with my friend, and also I need to convince him back about ur items that they are clearly available now.... I hope u can understand
to everyone who buy from me, i keep to my word. and if i don't keep to my word, i will inform them.
i dont just decide and do things on my own. you clearly stated you need it by thursday. its so easy to understand you need things by thursday.. and if i can't make it by thursday, i will inform you. i'm sure that's reasonable on my part.
yeah dude, I know, but I havent made a deal with u before....So I really dunno how It looks like when U deal with someone...And Some more this is not my money...but my friend's money....Ok, pls gimme some time for me to convince my friend back.....I hope He can change his mind.... and everything is solved clearly...
once again, no information, no bank-in, so what am i suppose to do...
wait for you to bank in last minute and only then i prepare the hard disk? or wait for you to ffk me again after i prepare the hdd?
ask for help, ask for fast, but you are not responsible at all.
i really got strong urge to post you in trade dispute already. totally irresponsible buyer.
HEY! CHILL DUDE!! when I asked U about Ur hard disk that Iam still interested In it, U didnt say anything rite about it.... it's like U were already totally upset at me.... so how AM i supposed to bank In the Money If there's no Another confirmation from u..... I said Iam Still interested In the hard disk, But about PSU, when I talked to my friend, My friend Still insisted that he prefers another PSU... SO how? it's easy for me to bank In the money... no worries...
You want fast, but not responsible. Gave you bank info, but you say I said nothing. Ask if I can send by Wednesday, I said yes. Confirm anything? No. Only say interested. Say you'll take both PSU and HDD (Ok, whatever, buyer has his rights).. but with a bit of ethics, you should at least inform me. Yeah, what if i didn't see that acbel post? In the end, I won't know anything, and you wouldn't even inform me. If you can't trade ethically here, please go shop at pasar malam.
DO NOT PAY AND ASK ME TO SEND IMMEDIATELY ON THE SAME DAY. I TOLD YOU I NEED TO MAKE PREPERATIONS AND I WON'T MAKE PREPERATIONS WITH JUST INTEREST AND NO CONFIRMATIONAnyways, I'm pissed enough. I'm seriously going to report you, and that's a plus for even telling me to chill. Lets just see how it goes.
Of course I would Inform U how It went through Yesterday, But Iam not the One Who Just sits In front of PC all the time! Just now I said Iam still interested In the hard disk, It's because I confirm to take it, But Since YEsterday When U didnt give any confirmation about the hdd, And I know It's because U were already upset at me as well. so U didnt say anything about it..... of course I gotta wait for U to give me a confirmation ( HDD only )
for the power supply, I told Y rite yesterday I would be gonna discus with my friend first about everything..... now IT"S ALL UP TO U, WHAT U WILL BE DOING NEXT....i really Dont mind.....
Good, carry on lying to yourself. I don't know the meaning of saying anything about anything already when I gave you all the information you needed then you said no. Not to mention, saying gonna bank in, then do something else without informing me.
Yeah, you discussed and told me after I pm'd you.
You're wasting my time, and I'll report you so others have to be careful when dealing with you. So you don't waste other people's time as well.
hahahah, GO ahead...... I also have to beware Of U then.... Iam really sick Of this.... U post there then I will reply everything regarding the matters...Cool....
Edit: Oh yeah, called him 2-3 times, and sms to no reply too after learning of his possible ffk. Probably more excuses.
This post has been edited by biatche: Feb 28 2007, 02:30 PM