QUOTE(fuserdef @ Jan 11 2017, 10:37 PM)
I love walls of text, cause i think in that way too, i need to setup my point and also follow it through ! I really appreciate the time you took to write this !!!
and of course for your advice, yea you know i;ve ppl advising me from that angle as well, at the end of the day would i regret what i didnt do ?
but the thing is ... i've actually one of the more fortunate ones that manage to achieve my young childhood dream, and i think I found the love of my life too, but BOTH of them, i repeat BOTH, came crashing down....mostly due to exterior influences... so at this point in my life i don't feel confident anymore about chasing dreams or love for that matter... which is i guess why i open this thread.
Is fine I've fallen much attempted suicide twice and I like to help people in my nature is just their choice to accept or not tho
You may need to know the right person to ask sometimes unless you want to understand more, example those rich mix with rich while poor mix with poor
Sad mix with happy is fine but happy people may not able to help due to their experiences and they may find it burden so their choice of words would be theory only without even trying to help you most of the time
They are certain things that our personality would not want to do and want to do, before you apply any actions ask yourself ape lu mau?
I seriously suggest try to understand yourself before anything else
same as
When you know how to love yourself you know how to love others, and people dont regret on this.
For self understanding is absolute provoke as I was an interviewer and often had new recruits have troubles on describe them self.
Your answer is yes if you're a person who follow the flow, solid up your mentality and had nothing to fear bro.
Example you child oversea work for years while you relax in your country and spend for your own happiness where missed during youth,when your life comes to an end than only you realize that those people you need/want to be there it wasn't present due to your selfish action
It happened to my close friend.
Jealous,Regret,Lonely.
No one will truly understand these when they did not fall to abyss we all knew these 3 emotions are the strongest is either self destruct or motivated due to positive mindsets.
You will cry like a nasty old hag during your last moment in hospital if these emotions are with you, I've seen more than 10 cases.
You archived your dream(1 of a fragment on No regret)
You have your love(No lonely)
Exterior influence, lack of confident (Due to jealousy on social influence and comparison?I assume lo)
Your priority is to get you love to love you more and to love her more to build up your a solid base(make sure she know your condition for her to emphasis more on your reason), men's love it after hardwork all day while returning home and you know your love ones is there for you.
A person for you to protect and cherish, and an essential reason for your to enlarge your protection for them.
This will hold you nothing back, because they are people waiting for your return.
Screw others that know or dont know about them self because YOU know/understand what's your need.
Not all people has the confident most of them just arrogant or assh0l3s which is consider confident for other people
I know you abit now so try these,
-Humble, kind. Never skip these unless you are those arrogant or azzho1ez confident
-Dress up everytime you go out even mamak
-Understand/get to know your self
-Prepare/evaluate/understand/think 1st before you do
-Know what you're doing, know the time for work and the time for fun
-Talk slow, skip ur mindset talk fast means do fast bcoz those r azzhol3z's confident
-Stand tall, show your man b00bs
-Smile,fake is fine bcz you may be a person that goes happy if is praised by others
-Empower yourself with knowldge, books, utube self improve videos etc etc
-Clean you car/room be organize, to impress yourself not others and you will respect yourself.
They're still alot more but I think you dont need those yet
But try google they have alot
To act or not is your choice some ppl like to act for confident
Open tered to ask nothing wrong le, no need shy just take it as internet people as it wont effect your life anyway as long as you dont sensitive/butthurt like how we Malaysian does, i think. hahaha
Well another text wall, hope is informative nuff for you even I sy tau grammer I lemah
have a good day bro
know your self 1st, tan you will know what to do/handle next