date can
play can
marry cannot

follow this 3 rule and u will never go wrong

If she is educated girl then ok, not the type you meet in club/pub/ktv/bar

Those who work in those places are mostly those from the kampung and uneducated

the difference in intelligence and culture will turn you off long term

not going to mention the part they tend to run off with your money and kids, those everyone already know

some will leave you with the kid still ok, some will take it balik kampung then extort money from you monthly. you no pay money they say will let your kid starve to death. see how cold hearted are you that time.
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