Errm I know I said I wont go off topic in this Mylarone LoveFest thread again but in the interest of justice and fairplay, I'll make this exception. Do pardon me MylarDudes and bro Yuheng, please don't hurt me ya. If u sit on me, I'll prolly suffocate just from the odor alone!
1stly let me make it clear that anything and everything I write isn't personal and directed against anyone at LYN. Its only my personal attempt at providing balance to arguments and a semblance of justice and fairplay. What does any of that crap have to do with posting in forums? Well IMO there are codes of conduct for civilized behavior even in something as anonymous as a forum. There's Honor even Amongst Thieves.
While its perfectly within everyone's right to post their "opinions and views", its (atleast I do) considered most uncivilized behavior to post an "opinion", a "claim" or worse an "accusation" without any proof, substantiation or even logic with only the words "its my opinion" to stand behind. To me that's akin to sniffing glue, licking a**sss, spewing verbal diarrhea on top of being a full card bearing member of Team NATO (No Action Talk Only - not a compliment btw and a major reason why M'sia's still close to 3rd World status). And in the same vein, so can someone else post a similarly critically opposing "opinion" and "accusation" claiming no other basis except the above "its my opinion what!". Motto here being When One Gives Be Prepared To Receive".
So what's considered civilized? I cant speak for anyone else but in my books, qualifying and substantiating our opinions, claims and accusations with proof, facts, figures and (esp. baring the prior 3) as much reason and logic as possible would be IMHO, a giant step towards civilized behavior and civilization. When one does the above, one not only gains respect and stature in the community but it is my humble opinion that one also contributes to the sharing and dissemination of knowledge that's absolutely vital in the advancement of civilized society.
So to littleghosts question of why am I being so sarcastic and offensive, perhaps the better question would be ask our own selves "why am I being sarcastic and offensive?". Remember What's Good for the Goose is Good for the Gander. At the very least, I make every attempt to infuse my statements with facts, figures and logic as much as possible but that's just me. So do verify my statements for authenticity as much as possible as I will take my "medicine" (and crucification too if need be) in the interest of justice and fairplay. After all what's fair's fair!
Perhaps the (forgotton) practice of thinking 1st before spewing any "opinions" that may hurt and damage lest we too get hurt and damaged is something we should start remembering. And yes I will admit that the Asian mentality of putting others down to make our own selves look and feel good, to be totally and absolutely abhorrent. But that's just me so feel free to have your own "views&opinions" but beware of equal payback as others too have their right to their "views&opinions" however unfounded, unsubstantiated and unfair.
That's it for scottie's position on Civilized Behavior 101. Mylarone fanz u have the floor with my deepest apologies for hijacking your thread. I'm positive there'll be plenty of folks that thinks all this is irrelevant and nonsensical and all I can say is "its my opinion what!". 'nuff said!