Not 0W-20 as always recommended by HM?

Well... the car can use 5w-30, 10w-30, 0w-30 and 0w-20. Honda recommends using 0w-20, but it's really up to the car owner which one to use according to their budget.
If you want a 2017 car, you may need to wait a while though coz I'm sure even if you get a car in January or February, it might have been manufactured in 2016

While moving you can safely change:
D <-> S, D -> N <- R

You need to be at a complete stop before changing:
D <- N -> R <-> P

Saw a test on Mythbusters though - a speeding car changing automatic gears from D to R and D to P. The car protects itself by shutting off completely. Don't dare to experiment it on my own car though

Huper optik vs 3M vs Llumar...which one better?curently surveying for tint

Placed booking for Civic 1.5 TC at Honda Tanjung Balai last Friday. SA said can get car end of this month. Can't wait for it 

SA offered Connex for RM2960, Is this thing important to install in the car ? Thanks

6k + full tank 

Listed on page 1 FAQ. 0w-20. 0w-30, 5w-30, 10w-30 are all supported, but Honda recommends using 0w-20 for fuel economy.