I am a Malay guy and met a Chinese girl (let's call her 'M') in July this year via social media and we have gone out 3 times for dinner. M has turned me down a few times also during that time. M hugged me when we parted ways the first 2 times but the third time I told her I was uncomfortable with it because of religious restriction. Last time we had dinner was to celebrate her birthday a few days in advance because I had to travel for work. During dinner M even asked me to share her food. The first 2 times after dinner I wanted to walk M to her car but she declined; however, the third time she allowed me to.
I would greet M in the mornings and bid her good night via Whatsapp. I will message her occasionally throughout the day. She replies my messages although not immediately. Sometimes she will send pictures of herself. She does confide in me about her job which she dislikes terribly. I consoled her and advised her to be patient and look for another job.
A few days after her birthday we were supposed to have dinner again, this was planned during our third meeting. However, in the afternoon she said she wasn't feeling well and had to cancel. When I told M that I have something to give her, she immediately said she will meet me for dinner near her home in Bukit Jalil and will text me later.
I waited at a mall in Bukit Jalil and texted her saying if she's not well then we can just meet for me to pass her gift. I was surprised she gave me her home address and asked me to meet her there. Anyway, I was dejected after meeting M and felt that she was only interested in her gift. I believe there are other guys pursuing her because I saw pictures of flowers she received which she posted online.
Recently I ignored her for 2 days and on the third day I bid her good morning. She replied soon after and asked where have I been. I just said I had a lot on my mind. She asked whether I was fine and I said yes. Later in the night she asked how my day was, which she never did before. I am confused whether she likes me or considers me just a friend.
No she is not interested with you for a relationship. She has someone else in her mind and most probably, this person also tak layan her.
Best if you move along and look for someone else.