yay...lets vape

hello vaporer how is it going guys:
been mia for about few month liao

hehe.anyway wanna ask you guys,
how hard do you guys vape?
i mean,
do you suck it very hard?
or suck it like we used to smoke cig?
or just like we normally breath in smoothly?

I vape by breath in smoothly(overly smooth imo) and if my wicking is too long i get dry hit and my cotton and coil gunk up more quickly.
i have to cut my wick very short and barely on top of the deck of juice hole.

do you guys had the same problem as me?
been vaping for about year or so now,kinda annoying if i wick too long i get dry hit,and too short it will leak like crazy.

sorry for stupid question