QUOTE(zephyrus9999 @ Aug 25 2016, 12:15 PM)
personally i think friends are not everything. my best buddies here are french since i face them everyday, badminton / drinking / party buddies are locals, talk cock whining buddies are msians and prcs, ocassional drinking with aussies and brits. heck got even so tired walking around till bored of it. i think the value of childhood friendship means more to me. thats why i cant figure out how some who emigrate to places like aus & uk, will 360deg adapt to the social circle there?. Long run, end up chinese mix chinese also. Some will be dog tail wagging wannabe whites, but I have and know my roots and tend to enjoy the malaysian life despite how fuked our country is to an extent. Justifiable from a perspective of better living? Well just a matter of time before you miss the roadside nasi kukus nasi lemak, goreng pisang, 'challenging' environment, variety of sights, stuffs like that. well at least to me SG is culturally diverse from the outside, but no depth at all. just walk around and see how superficial everyone is. chasing time, chasing money, chasing careers, double faces in work, ultimately you feel the sense of emptiness. the infrastructure, development yes are 5stars but its more like catered from the foreigners success. like what locals telling me it feels like being caged, espcially when expats (bunch of them!) easily making >15k + condo allowances + good car vs them confined in small rooms and smelling mrt armpits everyday. opps, a little off topic

I tend to agree to some but not all , depth of culture in SG depend who you mix around with, to me life - style is similar to KL , diff is I am able to reach home earlier and better variety of drafts and places to have a drink .
Friends and companionship I believe is very individual .
For my case maybe abit unique some how quite a number of Uni kaki is here , in fact few group of them , some still finding hard to catch up .
Childhood friends well still very closely in touch , infact 1-2 buddy migrated (TW , AUS) , we always make a point to catch up with each other , if I go back if got time just go out catch up , if they travel here always make a point to meet up , some of them even bunk at my place - especially when those special marathon season going on, those in TW , AUS if I go there we meet there if they come over to SG I meet them , if we all go back to MY same time big gathering .
Thing do change after you are married , it is even harder to find time when you have kids .
When my spouse goes for long holiday is like Jail break for me , calling everyone out d !
Food wise Malay food I tend to agree Malaysia have better choices , for other Malaysian food I still think not that far off you just need to know where to get it ( so far KL Hokkien Mee can't find same standard as Jln Ipoh , but equivalent to PJ , Old Town still avail ) , in fact on concentration and variety SG you have more choices and higher quality for Jap, Korean and Western .
Look from other side of the coin you can find more S.E.A & International delicacy in SG compare to MY
- Thai > Beach Road
- Philippines > Lucky Plaza
- China > Geylang & China Town
- Indonesia > scattered around Singapore , revolve more in Geylang Serai - typical ones are Bakso , Padang , Penyet
- Korean > City Area - around Amoy Street
- Jap > City Area , Orchard / Clark Quay , Buono Vista
- Western : German , Sweedish , French , Greek , US , Italian > City Area , Holland V , East Coast , Buono Vista
Well the suckiest feeling is room size feels like divide by 2 , but yet again in KL if you are staying in Condo the size of flat you are buying here still similar 900 - 1200 sqft , well if you are renting a room then that's a different feeling .
Planning will be different for married couples usually they will plan to settle down in SG with children , thus finances are focus in SG and it isn't that difficult to get a resale unit in SG , SG resale starts at 300k KL - Penang decent condo start at 400k , SG typically maybe 1 car in MY must have 2 cars .