wow never know this tered also exist..haha

i'm a father to 2.5yo son, and his lil' bro/sis is detected in my wife's tummy few days ago

so far not much rant

both me and my wife work in shift. she's a gomen nurse, and i'm a technical support. most of the time its either me or wife at home with our son.

sometimes we got offday together, other time we had to work same day, so my MIL will take care my son. its very good to have an understanding MIL..haha

yes patience is very important.

dont always raise your voice. yes its not physical harm, but it is mental harm especially if you do it often.

always keep in mind that they still young, still got more to learn. dont expect 2-3yo son can behave like 10-12yo ones

my son will rush to me everytime he see i'm about to close the fridge door

he will push very hard.. if i didn't notice, few items inside will fall down

my son sometimes very hard to sleep. usually we start the "sleeping process" around 11pm. change his cloths to pajamas and change diaper. then make him 8-9oz milk.

on normal day, he'll fall asleep around 12-12.30am. on crazy day he'll ask for more milk so had to make another 4-6oz. one or two occasion he'll ask for even more milk

that time we not entertain him anymore and pretend we're asleep too

his sleep/wake routine > wakeup around 10.30-11am - bath - lunch around 1-1.30pm - afternoon nap 2-2.30 until 5-6pm - bath - dinner around 8-9pm - sleep 11pm-12am

but once a twice a month we purposely deny his afternoon nap so that he'll sleep at night earlier (around 9pm)

me too LOL

but when arrive at office, suddenly miss my son, so cant wait to get home

and the cycle repeats