Last night my wife cooked sup sayur and ikan keli bakar. The ikan keli bakar she fold in daun pisang and cook on a pan without oil! End up the fish become like ikan rebus only..... my goodness. Luckily i already eaten earlier. I dont know la she is lazy or what but, to tell the truth my wife is lazy because this house i did all the vacuum, mop, wash all toilets. I cant blame her because when i go to her parents house, mmg kotor la. The toilet very hancing n smelly like everyday eat petai. So i guess its inherited to her. In this house, she used different bathroom with mine because i dont like to use water heater and guess what..... she never bother to clean up the sink, the bathroom floor or the toilet bowl.

So tomorrow my wife said she want to puasa so she want to wake up and cook another meal, i said the left over food still there just eat that one la. I think she also want to vomit what she cooks just now.... i cant believe she asked if i want to have another rice or not....

I wish i could tell her that u r super lazy but i just dont gave the guts.................

She blindly cook. Unless i told her specifically...

She will cook all sayur with eggs (which is weird for me). My son had eczema, but her tolerance and logic fail, she don't bother to know that eggs can cause eczema to baby since she breastfeed......

Simple things like curry all those OK la, but sambal she still fail.

SO, i am soooo happy if i were the one who cook. If her, i very very scared to eat takut tak sedap. IF tak sedap pun i have to eat also.

I wonder why she's not like other wife, who likes to menghias rumah, clean the house, menjahit, try new recipe............

She just don't care. Honestly, i always wonder if it would be better if i left her but kesian my son nanti....

Secondly, she's not proactive like me lar. Maybe because she's gomen so a bit slow.

Like when my son sick, she can acting rilek rilek.... maybe it because she know that i will be the to handle everything.........

I'm like this because been taught from my mom, last time if i buat salah sure kena marah by my mom. So that's why i'm like perfectionist like that...

But herrr........

i respected those who have more than 1 kid, no maid and able to clean the house...

laundry aside, the best i could do is mop the floor during weekend midnights when my wife and boy are asleep...

the shelves were untouched for months, dem that layer of dust... even the toilet need to split by items and washed a few times