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post May 17 2016, 02:18 PM

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QUOTE(damnself @ May 17 2016, 02:14 PM)
Miss my wife and kids 😔😔😔
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i feel ya bro. how long been flying solo?

QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 17 2016, 02:16 PM)
feel bad cos i made him cry, like i bully him like that sweat.gif

kids ar... they are really... cute laugh.gif
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hahaha. yeah for sure. always like to see them play. not a care in the world. so nice.

eyes like this. terus melt yo

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post May 17 2016, 02:27 PM

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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 17 2016, 02:23 PM)
ah... miss my boy, tonight go back and kiss those chubby cheeks of his devil.gif
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lucky. my boy away for another 1.5 months cry.gif everyday video chat and always learning new words each day cry.gif cry.gif

QUOTE(kokokranc @ May 17 2016, 02:25 PM)
Most of dads are working now so a bit quiet lol.
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hahah. earn that money guys!
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post May 17 2016, 04:19 PM

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QUOTE(damnself @ May 17 2016, 04:00 PM)
Well..I'm sorta on off I guess..just last year August I continue studied on alternate weekend so sometime kesian at wife kids since I'm busy working weekdays and studying on weekend so on certain period I send them at Kuantan with my in law. This time almost one month they are in Kuantan. When free time went back to Kuantan by bus since it's cheaper and easier.

Little boy now 1 year and my daughter already 2 years. Just yesterday FaceTime with my daughter since she ask my wife she want to talk to me. Once online she just kept quiet and for awhile can see her lips trembling and holding her tears 😔😔😔
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Aduh quite tough lah. But so cute your daughter miss you. But dunno what to say.

QUOTE(MeToo @ May 17 2016, 04:14 PM)
a month?

its about 1k a day...
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She a doc in gov hospital. So cheap/possibly free for her. Twins and premature. So tough man...

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post May 17 2016, 04:19 PM

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QUOTE(klein @ May 17 2016, 04:17 PM)
No thank you.

I wouldn't allow my future hubby to be by my side while I deliver.
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Why? Malu ke?
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post May 17 2016, 04:44 PM

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QUOTE(edwinlcw @ May 17 2016, 04:40 PM)
haha.. i was by my wife side when two of my kids were born... i even go infront and watch how the doc pull the baby out. laugh.gif
also did the cutting ceremony..  rclxms.gif
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i didnt get to see as wife was c-sec. but saw the doc with all the blood over her glasses and mask... sweat.gif

i tak berani stand up to look at my wifes stomach thoguh. maybe i will faint. so just duduk quietly behind the screen....
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post May 17 2016, 05:02 PM

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QUOTE(edwinlcw @ May 17 2016, 04:45 PM)
if c-sec i also don't think i will dare to see....
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yeah. just go in. sit down behind the screen and talk to your wife, hold her hand. dont stand up. dont talk to the doctor. just sit there.

i stood up when she said, baby is here. saw the bloody baby, doctor with bloody mask and glasses and gloves. she laughed.. i was freaked out. quickly sit back down. hahaha.



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QUOTE(mrg220t @ May 17 2016, 05:28 PM)
Was in the OT with wife during her C-Sec. All can see if the Anesthologist pushing the baby out from the front and seeing my baby's leg and body pop out from the hole they cut in my wife.
I was like dafuk is this technique.
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dafuq.... for mine, at least to my knowledge, the anesthesiologist didnt even go near my wife. just standing there watching all the info on the machine and monitoring. chat with my wife to check she didnt pengsan or whatever like that. just the doc and two assistant, i guess nurse maybe... do the op.


QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 17 2016, 05:39 PM)
mine nightmare... admitted very early in the morning... farking 26 hour labour bangwall.gif

in the end, opened at 9cm but head wrong facing... vacuum tak jadi... no choice go emergency c-sect... my wife was like ranting.gif bangwall.gif vmad.gif  mad.gif

i stayed outside cos they don't let me in... around 45mins later they pushed the baby out and let me check, everything ok then they go cuci sweat.gif
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yeah emergency c-sec they wont let you in. in case got problem then you flip out.
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post May 18 2016, 08:15 AM

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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 17 2016, 10:43 PM)
definitely... he can get his driver to fetch you from the hospital after your delivery too rclxms.gif
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Uber lah. What driver.... hahaha
Anyways, if she really feels like that. Then really Kesian.
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post May 20 2016, 03:48 PM

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QUOTE(axymax @ May 20 2016, 03:21 PM)
any muslim daddy's here?
how's you preparation for raya?
got headache or not?
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why headache? just beli oversize baju raya 2-3 helai and can use for several raya.

QUOTE(alternativehype @ May 20 2016, 03:43 PM)
Anyone been to Zoo Negara recently? Worth to visit this coming school holiday?
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not recently, but overpriced. depending on kids age, i recommend farm in the city. smaller and not too many animals but at least your kid can touch and feed all the animals.
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post May 23 2016, 10:41 AM

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my son dont gib a fak about his parents once i drop him off at those kid/gym/playground places. put him down and its like bye. adios. see you never! hahahah.
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post May 23 2016, 11:11 AM

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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 23 2016, 10:43 AM)
how you train him? laugh.gif

more like at what age you started sending him to classes?

i'm still on trial classes cos don't know which is suitable sweat.gif
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not to the classes. just normal playground or those play gym with the stuff. havent decide on classes yet as they are a bit pricey for me so havent thought about it fully yet if its beneficial beyond social skills.

no training. just put him there and he will go make friends by himself and run around yelling and having fun. he will look back at us but doesnt request us to follow or malu malu. many times we will also put him at the lego shop and he will play with the other kids there and share all the blocks. so quite happy for that. maybe its just natural personality is like that. haha.
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 23 2016, 11:24 AM)
go try lor cos some of the trial classes are free like Gymboree, The Little Gym...
those that need to pay are like Bentley Music and Julia Gabriel...

I also cannot decide which one to enroll him cos he seems ok with the music class only so far sweat.gif

you did it correct, what i read is try not to follow your kids around, stay where you are, and if they look back, you just acknowledge
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yeah. was thinking to do the gymboree. i went to a few with my niece. but i feel its just playing hahaha. but will check it out. im more interested in looking for the martial arts classes for little kids. i think can start at 3yo.

i hope i did it correctly. my wife likes to follow him around, but normally we will just help at the stairs because some kids are really psycho running like they stole something.... hahahah. he seems very independent so it makes me happy, but hes not aggressive which is good, but also im worried he will kena bully later. hai.. so many concerns. hahah
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post May 23 2016, 11:58 AM

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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 23 2016, 11:48 AM)
i personally think gymboree is like kidzania but with a trainer laugh.gif
for more proper one you can try out the little gym, they teach how to do balancing, climbing, turnover, rolling and stuff like that...

let me know if you find a good one , i am also interested tongue.gif

i'll follow if its not so safe, like stairs, others i try to let him explore
unless he's like sleepy or something, they'll i'll follow laugh.gif

yeah true... a lot of things to worry about sweat.gif
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will do. most parents seem to put kids in taekwondo. but i feel its not good enough. met a few kids growing up all doing that. all not very good when there is an actual fight. like very impractical because then need a distance to really power up the kick... im still contemplating, but im thinking to send my kid to aikido, jiujitsu, judo, or wing chun. all close quarters fighting. we will see. and thanks for the info about the gym. the little gym sounds good.
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post May 23 2016, 02:22 PM

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QUOTE(Mr.PostMan @ May 23 2016, 02:21 PM)
send them all to martial arts classes, i plan to do that for my girl.
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yeah especially for girls. they need to learn, especially grappling and escape maneuvers.
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QUOTE(joe_kopitiam @ May 31 2016, 03:18 PM)
hi daddies,

i not yet ready to be daddy so what do u guys use for birth control eh? rubber/pill/IUD or everyone just pull out?  unsure.gif
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pill during the early days, but stopped about 6-8 months before we decided to have a kid. just to flush out whatever drugs were in the system. Pull out doesnt work and not advised and also not syiok to pull out at the best part.
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 31 2016, 03:30 PM)
seriously pancut dalam is dem syok... but i always use the pull out method... we didn't like rubber
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QUOTE(joe_kopitiam @ May 31 2016, 03:39 PM)
what about IUD (mirena/duragard)? i now pull out but saspen la guys everytime her period is late. i hate rubber too.
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of course no one like rubber hahah. forgot which joke, but like korek hidung pakai glove, mana syiok. .... sometimes pain after rambuts get stuck hahaha. but what to do. thats why pill is good. or can get the injection, i think lasts like 3 months. per shot. but will mess up the womans hormones, so if you wanna have a kid, need to stop the pill. we thinking to try the injection thing. can do at the klinik ibu dan anak. dunno how much. maybe free even... hmm... anyways if you use pull out method, just make sure you are ready for a baby everytime you put it in.
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ May 31 2016, 04:32 PM)
any side effects? never tried
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My wife mood not so good when on the pill. Plus need to take it every single day and then got schedule. Sometimes forgot if makan or not? Then stress. Etc. If forgot makan few days, will get period etc. But for women with irregular period is very good. But all women different.
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QUOTE(andrewcha @ May 31 2016, 06:16 PM)
Is baby under 1 years old suitable to consume half boil eggs?
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no.

only fully cooked food. even so, kids only around 8-12 months depending can eat the egg whites. and then at 1 year can eat the yolk as well. or something like that.
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ Jun 1 2016, 11:12 AM)
by the way... want some ideas what else to put into my toddler's porridge...

running out of ideas...
spinach, wolfberry
celery, carrot
coriander, carrot
purple carrot, dried scallops
beetroot, dried scallops
corn, celery
coriander, nagaimo (japanese yam)

anything else?
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meat? hahahaha. can put some chicken or some fish. or you can try use different grain like the small yellow ones. xiao mi zhou?
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QUOTE(sendoh_7 @ Jun 1 2016, 11:26 AM)
i think its the other way around...
yolk can give to babies under 1 year old
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oops~ long time already. forgot hahah.

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