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LYN Daddy's rant thread V1, mai rage/complain/etc
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Rusty Nail
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Mar 1 2017, 11:14 AM
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QUOTE(andrewcha @ Mar 1 2017, 11:08 AM) Parenting. So much different now and back then. Back then : when we kena whack by parents = we do wrong thing and parents like *you do wrong thing thats why* Now : we scold our kids, our parents will be like *why you scold your son/daughter?* Lol, I got scolding from my dad for scolding my daughter
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hutazi
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Mar 1 2017, 11:15 AM
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QUOTE(zr125 @ Mar 1 2017, 11:06 AM) I agree to this. similar to my daughter. in-laws came in stay with us for a couple of weeks. everything going haywire. haha. daughter normally sleep at 9-10pm. when they come, 1am also don't want to sleep.  hahah. for us my boy sleeps late already so that was still ok. but just dont want to listen to anything i say. everything he quickly run to grandpa. my parents are ok, they have experience raising 3 of us. and then also now 3 cucu's. so they understand... when i do something or yell at my kid. they all diam. but my inlaws only have 1 daughter, and then now 1 cucu. so my boy so damn pampered it drives me nuts!!! QUOTE(kenji1903 @ Mar 1 2017, 11:11 AM) back then whack first, no talk... some time buta only kena for don't know what reason  now talk talk talk, no whack unless really no choice  if something really bad, i whack first, then talk. otherwise he wont stop.
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EternalC
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Mar 1 2017, 11:15 AM
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QUOTE(Rusty Nail @ Mar 1 2017, 11:14 AM) Lol, I got scolding from my dad for scolding my daughter  woi, sekejap kata gf then now ada dotter pula apa nih
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TSkenji1903
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Mar 1 2017, 11:18 AM
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QUOTE(hutazi @ Mar 1 2017, 11:15 AM) if something really bad, i whack first, then talk. otherwise he wont stop. haven't reach that stage of danger yet so belum whack  but its true la, else they won't know that its wrong... kids...
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hutazi
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Mar 1 2017, 11:18 AM
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QUOTE(EternalC @ Mar 1 2017, 11:15 AM) woi, sekejap kata gf then now ada dotter pula apa nih  lol. who said cannot have gf and dotter  maybe gf, wife and daughter.. hmm...
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hutazi
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Mar 1 2017, 11:21 AM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ Mar 1 2017, 11:18 AM) haven't reach that stage of danger yet so belum whack  but its true la, else they won't know that its wrong... kids...  my son like to play with doors. so last time tersepit and until his nail fall off. so now if he touch these big doors. straight kena whack. hahaha. but doesnt cry lah. just look at me like... 'awww man....' then i bring up the other door, then he goes and plays something else.
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EternalC
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Mar 1 2017, 11:22 AM
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QUOTE(hutazi @ Mar 1 2017, 11:18 AM) lol. who said cannot have gf and dotter  maybe gf, wife and daughter.. hmm... i see what he did there
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Rusty Nail
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Mar 1 2017, 11:27 AM
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QUOTE(EternalC @ Mar 1 2017, 11:15 AM) woi, sekejap kata gf then now ada dotter pula apa nih  Bila cakap ada gf?
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zr125
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Mar 1 2017, 11:28 AM
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QUOTE(hutazi @ Mar 1 2017, 11:15 AM) hahah. for us my boy sleeps late already so that was still ok. but just dont want to listen to anything i say. everything he quickly run to grandpa. my parents are ok, they have experience raising 3 of us. and then also now 3 cucu's. so they understand... when i do something or yell at my kid. they all diam. but my inlaws only have 1 daughter, and then now 1 cucu. so my boy so damn pampered it drives me nuts!!! if something really bad, i whack first, then talk. otherwise he wont stop. can't whack when in-laws is around. haha. feels like i'm the bad person.
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TSkenji1903
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Mar 1 2017, 11:31 AM
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QUOTE(hutazi @ Mar 1 2017, 11:21 AM) my son like to play with doors. so last time tersepit and until his nail fall off. so now if he touch these big doors. straight kena whack. hahaha. but doesnt cry lah. just look at me like... 'awww man....' then i bring up the other door, then he goes and plays something else. mine kena kepit before when he was younger, around 1.5yo... after that, every time he goes near the door, i said "finger, finger" he terus kecut and play something else  but he still has this obsession with lifts
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hutazi
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Mar 1 2017, 11:32 AM
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QUOTE(zr125 @ Mar 1 2017, 11:28 AM) can't whack when in-laws is around. haha. feels like i'm the bad person. hahaha. last time i told my in-laws. "if required, you can whack my son on his hand or bum" they look at me like im a crazy person. then i ask my wife. "they whack you or not?" she reply "they whack me a lot growing up, one time i remember slap me for not getting angry when they took some of my icecream" damn LOL. seems all their own protocol change when it comes to grandkids. the cucu become like some sorta God or Angel to them or something hahaha. PUI!!!!
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hutazi
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Mar 1 2017, 11:33 AM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ Mar 1 2017, 11:31 AM) mine kena kepit before when he was younger, around 1.5yo... after that, every time he goes near the door, i said "finger, finger" he terus kecut and play something else  but he still has this obsession with lifts  hahaha. yeah i remember your son obsessed with lifts. that really scares me. when they run and put hands on the doors as its opening.
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TSkenji1903
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Mar 1 2017, 11:36 AM
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QUOTE(hutazi @ Mar 1 2017, 11:33 AM) hahaha. yeah i remember your son obsessed with lifts. that really scares me. when they run and put hands on the doors as its opening.  tu lah! he go follow me put his hands to hold the doors to avoid them from closing
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hutazi
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Mar 1 2017, 11:39 AM
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QUOTE(kenji1903 @ Mar 1 2017, 11:36 AM) tu lah! he go follow me put his hands to hold the doors to avoid them from closing  summore my condo is old lift. so they did upgrade the lift to have a sensor. but he is not tall enough as only got one sensor in the middle. and hes so small so the safety push thingie thing is so heavy. man. i so takut alwasy hold his hand near any lift. escalator he is ok, he knows that im supposed to carry him. even if he has a tantrum, just tell him we are going up. then he will be fine. then sampai next floor. continue the tantrum hahahah.
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EternalC
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Mar 1 2017, 11:40 AM
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QUOTE(Rusty Nail @ Mar 1 2017, 11:27 AM) Bila cakap ada gf?  oh, maybe mistaken u for another guy
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TSkenji1903
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Mar 1 2017, 11:42 AM
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QUOTE(hutazi @ Mar 1 2017, 11:39 AM) summore my condo is old lift. so they did upgrade the lift to have a sensor. but he is not tall enough as only got one sensor in the middle. and hes so small so the safety push thingie thing is so heavy. man. i so takut alwasy hold his hand near any lift. escalator he is ok, he knows that im supposed to carry him. even if he has a tantrum, just tell him we are going up. then he will be fine. then sampai next floor. continue the tantrum hahahah.ini cute
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blah2blah
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Mar 1 2017, 03:35 PM
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QUOTE(hutazi @ Mar 1 2017, 12:21 PM) my son like to play with doors. so last time tersepit and until his nail fall off. so now if he touch these big doors. straight kena whack. hahaha. but doesnt cry lah. just look at me like... 'awww man....' then i bring up the other door, then he goes and plays something else. Lol seems like little kid like to push doors. Fridge, front door, storeroom door.
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mi-g
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Mar 1 2017, 04:33 PM
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QUOTE(andrewcha @ Mar 1 2017, 03:35 PM) Lol seems like little kid like to push doors. Fridge, front door, storeroom door. my son will rush to me everytime he see i'm about to close the fridge door  he will push very hard.. if i didn't notice, few items inside will fall down
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hutazi
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Mar 1 2017, 04:42 PM
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hahaha. my son also like to close things. weird. im lucky he doesnt like to open stuff though. but all the cabinet if im taking something out he will close it. even the baby safety latch he will lock. never try to open. but make sure all of them are locked hahaha. damn funny.
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TSkenji1903
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Mar 1 2017, 08:38 PM
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QUOTE(hutazi @ Mar 1 2017, 04:42 PM) hahaha. my son also like to close things. weird. im lucky he doesnt like to open stuff though. but all the cabinet if im taking something out he will close it. even the baby safety latch he will lock. never try to open. but make sure all of them are locked hahaha. damn funny. Mine terbalik, everything kasi bukak  Now got new interest, wash bowl... push the dining chair all the way into the kitchen and start taking nearby bowls, plates and wash  just now only wife complain he accidentally dropped a bowl
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