lol kenji, didn't realised have this thread at /k, the watch thread doesn't allow us to rant much about these daddy stuff. Yes, I have a boy and girl, no maid and have to do most of the chores in the house especially when the 2nd arrival is still below 1 yo. But along the way of doing this house chores and cooking, there are positive side of it, as we progress there are lesson behind it. More of like a self actualized kind of stuff, for example, cooking, previously I don't cook at all, but we this condition, I have to pick it up as I don't want to just resort to take out food from restaurant. As I progress and practice and research through youtube, books, I found it therapeutic when I am cooking and even now baking a sourdough bread. Cooking can be as manly as there are science and art side of it, how to prepare food methodologically and understand the science behind it make better food, every time.

There are also a FB dad support group (the dad edge) that is quite good that keep us daddy motivate in being a dad to our child, a husband to a wife, a child to our parent, an entrepreneur and etc...

oh... maksud you car seat tu kat depan punya passenger seat... apasal xnak letak belakang?
baby i dari umur 3 bulan dah duk belakang seorang dan saya seorang hari2 hantar dia ke nanny je.

Kalau duduk seat belakang tu, dia facing belakang atau depan?

She blindly cook. Unless i told her specifically...

She will cook all sayur with eggs (which is weird for me). My son had eczema, but her tolerance and logic fail, she don't bother to know that eggs can cause eczema to baby since she breastfeed......

Simple things like curry all those OK la, but sambal she still fail.

SO, i am soooo happy if i were the one who cook. If her, i very very scared to eat takut tak sedap. IF tak sedap pun i have to eat also.

I wonder why she's not like other wife, who likes to menghias rumah, clean the house, menjahit, try new recipe............

She just don't care. Honestly, i always wonder if it would be better if i left her but kesian my son nanti....

Secondly, she's not proactive like me lar. Maybe because she's gomen so a bit slow.

Like when my son sick, she can acting rilek rilek.... maybe it because she know that i will be the to handle everything.........

I'm like this because been taught from my mom, last time if i buat salah sure kena marah by my mom. So that's why i'm like perfectionist like that...

But herrr........

car seat ada instruction bro...

kalau xsalah... umur kurang dari 6 bulan kena facing belakang... pastu baru boleh facing depan

car seat ada instruction bro...

kalau xsalah... umur kurang dari 6 bulan kena facing belakang... pastu baru boleh facing depan

Sometimes u need to give instruction to her like "Harini tolong basuh toilet, dah kotor sangat tu".

Orang macam ni kita kena ketuk sikit baru dia jalan. Kalau kita tak ketuk, dia tak akan sedar.

Like every week, on Saturday or Sunday, before nak buat aktiviti luar, kemas rumah dulu.

Actually, rear facing car seat for the child until 2 years old. And car seats to be placed at the back all the time.

Many info on the internet. Pls always strap your child in.

Carseat tu ikut berat.  Tp kalau duduk belakang, then facing belakang plak tu cam pelik je.

Skang ni anak aku duduk depan tapi mmg facing belakang pun, cuma tak duduk seat belakang la

I created this thread but didn't expect to that we have so many dad's in /k

Mine terbalik, now twice a week will tapao dinner, but my boy always gets home cook food, even when we go for holidays, we still cook porridge for him in the hotel

wah just notice got a thread for daddys..hahaha..

got 2 daughters ..eldest is 5 years old , youngest 2 years old..

my eldest has mild autism.. so has been a very challenging experience but a very good one...really teach me to be a better and more patient person...

Sometimes u need to give instruction to her like "Harini tolong basuh toilet, dah kotor sangat tu".

Orang macam ni kita kena ketuk sikit baru dia jalan. Kalau kita tak ketuk, dia tak akan sedar.

Like every week, on Saturday or Sunday, before nak buat aktiviti luar, kemas rumah dulu.

ya ada car seat instruction yg kata lebih besar atau lebih berat baru boleh facing depan. kesimpulannya car seat hanya ada dua tujuan sebenarnya.
satu untuk keselamatan anak.
dua ialah untuk pasti anak tidak cederakan leher sbb bayi xleh support kepala lagi jadi mungkin akan menyebabkan masalah pernafasan.

saya x ikut pasal bila anak dah sampai 4-5bulan, dah mula curious, bising, nak tengok dan sentuh semua benda so i kasi dia facing depan je...

I see, duduk belakang but then facing depan la?

Haha.. I call that the jakun stage. He just found out he can travel much faster. Thats y will try to run as fast as he can.

I assume u already redecorate ur house keep everything breakable in storage and move everything out of reach

lol just found out this group, most of the stories here +- same like me lololol.

rant of the day (compiled all the while on hiatus) : my son is 1y 9m liao, hyperactive mode activated. super hard to control especially when out for makan 

p.s : expecting my 2nd baby (boy!) on march, hopefully all goes well and my wife can give birth normally. only on the 4th time scan can identify the gender

Tak la, meaning if you driving, you tak nampak sangat side mirror sebelah kiri tu sbb kena block by the car seat.

janji leher dia dah kuat sbb kalau u accidentally jam brake, takut leher dia x cukup kuat untuk support.
then janji sentiasa ada pakai safety belt.

Mine low cost flat.. Does not have many fragile stuff.. But when outside, yeap i have to use leash..
Rant or gtfo
I know dat feel
Bring toys also not working.. Use my old nexus 7 tab for him to watch harry the bunny ( babyfirst tv )..

Annnd congrats on 2nd..
wo bro.. Car seat are not meant to be place infront.. Especially a car with airbag.. Put it in middle, facing backward or front ( depend on the car seat manual )

Things happen, don't feel so guilty ok.

How old is your son?

How's every daddy's 2017 going?

Kindergarten year =  headache year

Dunno what will happen in school in the future.

Why headache?