My kids doesn't keep all their toys in their toys basket. There's some in my car too so I brought half of the toys to my office to give them to the cleaner's kid. This is not the first time I actually gave out their toys. They promised to clean up after themselves and if they don't they will lose their toys

This post has been edited by Mad Matt: Nov 24 2016, 10:23 PM

good. always gotta reaffirm the 'im not playing/joking with you'.

What type of toys do u get for your 12 month old? Any suggestions?

I noticed they get bored fast with toys, and they actually prefer to play with whatever I'm using.

Haha.

they all like that. no matter what toys you wanna get... just get some safe toys for them as they will just put into their mouths. get some musical toys, normally they like that.

actually want to ask ah... our almost 2yo boy is not following instructions... we notice that he selects what he wants to follow... last time he used to be better, around 18-20months, we ask him to keep his toys, he'll pickup a few and put it back into his toy box

now he just totally ignores and continues with what he's doing

are we expecting too much from him? or are we not strict enough?

welcome to the terrible 2's.

my son like this... but now we've become more strict on him (especially me). like if he dont makan, will give him the death stare. and firmly tell him off... then he will say 'baba angry' and eat his food. now i just begin counting 1, 2, ... then he will stop whatever he was doing.

but sometimes doesnt work. and also need to remember, kids are kids. so dont always be strict. hehe.

really not easy ah... i am a patient person, some times i'll lose my cool also... but my wife

yeah my wife also explodes at him a few times. but for some reason my son is more scared of me. maybe due to deeper voice...

now my wife gib up and if im home she wont yell any more.. she will just say 'baba is going to get angry' hahahah. i feel so innocent sometimes just lying down on the sofa and hear my name used in a threat hahahah.

hahahah, at least your boy is afraid of 1 person

mine langsung xkesah... but some times when my wife explodes, he'll keep quiet... then my wife will continue say, "you so naughty, i don't want to love you anymore", he'll cry... machem understand leh

but i told my wife try not so say such things, a bit negative... we are still discussing to see what kind of positive comments we can tell him when this scenario happens

wah that one a bit over lah hahahah. kids understand a lot. but maybe cannot connect naughty = no love. instead just think of it as 'no love'

my wife will just say something like 'if you dont eat, only mama and baba are going out to go play on the slide (or whatever your plans were or child likes to do)' seems thats working for now. haha. but of course make sure you follow through with the offer.

I tried something like that last night, he kept turning off the lights when i was making milk for him... after that he'll walk away, when i turn the lights back on, he'll run back laughing then turn off the lights again
so i said "you off the lights again, daddy will go to sleep"... he came back turn off the lights, i said "ok, byeeee, daddy's going to bed" and walk away from the dressing table... he went "aaahhhhhhh" then turn on the lights and pulled me over to make his milk

some times ah... don't know should angry or laugh... but kids are kids just so darn cute

> i told my daughter if i were to clean up for her, she won't get to play it
daughter>challenge accepted
>clean up for her, store into toyogo box with lid
>she dare not play with the toys even though its in plain sight
>2 weeks she didn't touch the toys until i lifted the ban

on the side note, since no2 came out, no1 is extra manja
change diaper also want to kacau

That's why I did almost everything I warned them. Too bad sometimes they very forgetful,first week ok the next week terus lupa their promise.

My twin boys the younger one is more manja than the first one. Sometimes when we're watching TV he will lay his body on me while the older will be busy talking while pulling my hand.
I told my boys I have given their toys to the cleaner's kids and they doesn't seem to mind because I only take the small small and loud toys away from them. Good thing now they focus on their music class better

my rant for last week...

my boy's last class for the year and we have Christmas gift party last weekend... gift was supposed to be unisex and cost around RM30, the teachers recommended the gift around a certain size...

what my kid got? a lego... not just any farking lego... a farking small piece lego for ages farking 7 to farking 14?!?!?!

wadafuq are the parents thinking?!?!? memang no standard and no class at all leh... can pay for RM160 per class but cannot get a proper RM30 gift? and its only once a farking year? blardy obvious that lego was an unwanted gift cos the daughter is at most a year older than my boy! and my boy is not even 2 yet!!!

/rant

This post has been edited by kenji1903: Nov 28 2016, 10:13 AM

yeah. its just a recycled gift. you should keep it... wait for next year then gib it back.

Hi guys

Maybe my ques is out of topic but this thread seems like more to family topic

What brand of dish detergent u all use eh?

For years my family use snlight brand, lime. But lately it makes my mom's hand dry and 'terhakis'..maybe no more vit c in the product

I try brand jy,same..i try gloo,not effective

... really lari topic... dunno what brand my house use. just buy whatever is cheap. these days nothing works well. all cut costs. 1 drop clean many plates... PUI!!!!

either wear gloves or put hand moisturizer before sleeping...

i'm using more expensive eco friendly dish washers from cosway, also will have dry hands...

Seems almost all brand really cut cost.no more additional ingredient for skincare..so i need to try n error all product

Ok tq

*rant of the day*

missing mah kid and waifu the whole week, daddy stay because of work and they balik kampung cuti2

only tomolo can balik met them