Awesome. Why discriminate against you? You are a good man for doing that. You took a kid out of the system and hopefully will give him a life full of happiness.

But how did you adopt a kid before you got married? I thought susah gile to do that. Well anyways. Congrats bro!

hahaha. is it? well people just not used to it. my dad is dark and im really fair and lovely as a kid. so people thought he is my family's helper/driver or something hahahah. kesian liao. anyways. nice job dude. my family full of adopted peoples. dont even know who is actually blood related anymore haha. dulu just pick up a kid and can adopt. dont even care about paperwork hahah. i just found out a few years ago one of my close aunties adopted when i asked my mom why is so and so the only skinny one HAHAHAHAHA. genetics ftw.

my boy i cut his hair at home. just in the toilet. give him some toys to play with and use some clippers to trim. between like 8-16 months he hated it sooo bad. but one day we were ready to suffer and then he was perfectly fine. playing with his toys. i let him hold the buzzing clippers (kids one, not the hardcore one) then hes ok. but when malas just shave his whole head... he sweats a lot so need to trim. otherwise always soaking and smelly haha.

i got it from taobao. quite good. super silent, battery powered and waterproof. so i tak takut give haircut in the toilet with my boy. i think this is the one (https://goo.gl/Pw3i0y). dont know if it works for older kids with thicker hair though. but for below 5 i think shouldnt have any issue. laju je my sons hair comes off hahah.

pull out so not syiok. cause need to worry about timing. haha.

do like those AV loh. hahah. but if your way worked dont change liao. afterwards. fail...

ya... my wife like that... when i get home most of the stuff is done. so just play with my son, bathe him, put him to sleep. lucky i dont OT much, otherwise sure gila....

... i just got invite for a wedding in france... my wife just said to me 'were going to paris!!!!'

i guess this cured her boredom from always just jaga baby hahah. FML. might need to become an uber driver during my twilight hours...

yah. need to record all these precious moments. i got like 6-7gb worth of photos on my phone and backed up to cloud of my kiddo. watch it when im in traffic jam. sure relax. stress free. hahah.

the feeling to carry them is so nice. especially after work feel reenergized. my boy is coming back in 2 weeks. finally. miss them so much

hahahah. true true. must enjoy, when they older, all dont want anything to do with you. hahah. like my niece now. sometimes feel damn annoying. so rude, tumbuk bagi... baru tau

hahah. kecian.

actually i never really trained my son to sleep in the crib. he's been doing it since birth, so maybe thats why not an issue. but my crib is pretty big (2.5' x 4.5') and using latex mattress which is pretty soft. but when he goes back to hometown with smaller crib and cheaper mattress, he wakes up a few times a night.

But normally, if he does wake up for some reason, we will put him in our bed. and after he sleeps again, we will shift him back to his crib. as my son likes to golek, he has lots of pillows in his crib, so he turn and hug them and also he doesnt ketuk his head anymore.

but yeah, you should check if it really is because of the crib that he is waking up, or is it temperature? need more pillows? when turn hit his hand? mattress too hard? or others.


i only got one, but i guess its normal as it is a pretty major surgery. of course you will be worried. but it should be fine. especially for elective c-sec as the docs are all prepped for the job. unless you get a crap doc. but i think its a pretty standard procedure. go in there and stay with your wife.

haha. maybe just a light sleeper. my kid sleep like a log at night. can lift, turn golek. change baju, whatever needs to be done haha. wont wake up. so i guess transfer to cot, he also tak kisah hahaha. but we kinda raised him in a noisy house before moving to our own place, so maybe thats why. haha. and also my baby doesnt like blanket, if ada blanket sure will wake up. kids are weird. your baby sleep fully clothed (like long pants, socks, everything? maybe that will help with the cold mattress (if AC room).

yeah quite lucky. but for some reason, if transfer from car seat or stroller. he will instantly wake up. maybe the seating position or what.. but if baring, he will out like a light. if you are light sleeper and kid is golek style. then good luck mang. hahaha. memang cant sleep haahahah

thanks for the PSA, but its weird that you didnt know about that in the first place. esp after all the baby tercampak out of car news... my car never move if my boy isnt strapped in. even no accident, just press the brake, they can get hurt. please be careful next time.

what kinda perut tak selesa? is it morning sickness?

i do really LOL though. cannot tahan listen to wife rant. didnt even have a kid yet. dont let her know. otherwise she will tell you 'fk you. i cannot tahan carry this baby anymore' after got the kid, gonna rant everyday to you. hahah. need to buck up bro and ride out the storm. you just using your ears to listen. her entire body is suffering. you are the outlet for her pain, if you dont give her that, its not going to end well. keep it up.

hahahah. dont tell her. she sure chop your lil brother. haha.

well every pregnancy is different, so cant fully rely on the old data. my wife sick all day for the entire pregnancy term. so.. imagine the ranting i received.... its probably just angin + nausea. maybe need to change up her foods. if you are chinese, for sure got all those, hot, cold, inner fire, blah blah blah food. my parents in law everyday complain about that... so maybe can look into changing foods according to that...

yeah. best is the isofix. because as they say, 'only as strong as the weakest link'. but its quite weird your baby seat got isofix and belt straps. quite cool. must be mahal hahah. can use both

i think most new cars got them. i was quite stunned when finding out that the exora doesnt have them though. supposedly a family MPV...

hahah. dont need to feel guilty.

feel guilty if he is sleeping and you wake him up at 2am to play.

yeah. mistakes happen. thats why i wont keyboard warrior you haahah. later kena 'bad parent' blah blah blah nonsense hahah. just please be careful next time. our kids become our treasure.

and to build upon this.

dunno if still available. but Merc is renting out (for free) baby carseats for raya balik kampung. drive safe. there are some places we dont want to arrive early.

so tired today. kid had too much fun yesterday so didnt sleep well. always waking up and tossing and turning. in the end put him in our bed. so at least we dont need to stand up and go to his crib.

he almost shadowless kick my face many times. he got my wife though hahah.