Yes I am busy. But no matter how busy I am, I will always give her a foot massage before she goes to bed. However this has stopped for the last couple of mths as our arguments grew..

TV yes, I did that too. I got board games, but sadly we don't have the time. Sex is like a taboo too her now. Like I said, there's zero intimacy...So sex toy is definitely a no go.
I've been asking her out for almost two years now, and she just doesn't want to.

That's why I'm really lost at the moment. It's like whatever I initiated, gets shut down.

I even tried to explain to her that the baby sitter can help to tc of our son during one of the weekends so we could go out to spend some time together. Also got a no.

I've asked her to see a psychologist, gynae etc. Everything is a no. Hence, I stopped. I don't want to end up forcing her.

Its really driving me crazy. Even this morning while I was sweeping the floor while she was in the shower, I just broke down. I feel so useless.