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Tim WiggleBoks
post Jan 25 2019, 12:06 PM

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QUOTE(HumbleDragon @ Dec 18 2018, 11:07 AM)
After having our first baby boy early this year, my wife has been sengaje carik pasal with me. Always express how she regret marry me.
Like some small2 thing, she wanna shout at me. Sometimes randomly bring out past mistakes I did back from college times mistakes which was back in 2008.
I try talking to her, maybe she stressed with having baby. But already almost one year, things just getting worst only. I rather just leave but can't because I love my son very much and definately everyone will blame me.

I don't know what to do... she really hates me but don't wanna leave me as well. Not sure what she wants. Any advice?
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Hey bro, I am facing the same situation too. Women can get quite emotional and hormonal, not to mention stressed at this time. Best advise is take everything she says with a pinch of salt, people say the worst things when they are mad/stressed. When she's calm, try communicating with her in a soft tone and slowly discuss your problems in a mature way. Hope she can understand how you feel, as much as you understand her feelings

All the best.
Tim WiggleBoks
post Jan 25 2019, 12:08 PM

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QUOTE(drbone @ Jan 24 2019, 06:07 PM)
My boy is 8 months old now. He is very attached to his mom. Always wants to go to her which is of course a good thing .
However , he rarely wants to play with me although I spend as much time as possible with him.
Any inputs guys ?
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At that age, kids tend to be closer to moms. Enjoy the process together with your wife and son. When he grows he would want to play sports and active things, thats where you come in and be the cool dad!

Tim WiggleBoks
post Jan 28 2019, 11:38 AM

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QUOTE(hydroboy87 @ Jan 25 2019, 03:02 PM)
Dear dads,

I would like to ask if any of you know any of you hired full-time maids after you had your first child?

Or just send to the baby sitter?

The reason is my mom and my mom in law are both in Ipoh and they are quite old and hard for them to travel often. And it is also not ideal for me and my wife to drive back every weekend.

So, we are considering hiring a full-time maid or send our child to a reliable baby sitter.

Need some advice on this, and we are aware that Maid Agencies can be quite funny, tricky and super expensive.
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Filipino maids are mostly very reliable. They stick with your family for years too, so theres strong loyalty there. Mine is working with me for over 25 years now and counting.
Tim WiggleBoks
post Feb 11 2019, 11:25 AM

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QUOTE(nyumnyum2k @ Jan 29 2019, 10:33 PM)
hi all dad...

my son is now 2 months and we have him difficult to sleep during daytime and make my wife difficult to do housework...he may sleep around 1 hour and need to breastfeed

my wife asking me to get the stand cradle since my son may able to sleep in it more..however i dont like this idea. i had try use the fisher price yesterday and today...it seem its does not last long for him to stay

any idea or suggestion
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Normal bouncer should work and helps you save money too

Rock on the stroller helps too

Good luck!

 

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