QUOTE(Blindspot61 @ Feb 23 2016, 12:39 PM)
You see, the problem is with the people. They fail to understand that whatever they said or do, they are bearing witness as children of God. Some of them (not teen mind you but older person) said thing that hurt his feeling.
No, my son is not the sensitive type. He can take 'joke' with stride. The good point about my son is I find he is a very polite person. He greed people, instantly even when he sees neigbour who are few doors away who hardly can hear him!
Of course he had his far share of down side too. You know, young man, kind of ego but usually not to those who is not close.
One of the main reason I myself did not attend churches is because of almost the same reason but I did not let him know. Hypocrisy. Now before you go telling me do not judge people, this is the most glaring problem most of the people who attended churches today are. And the reason many would be believer being turn off from accepting God.
My only word of advise I can give him is you cannot burn the whole forest just because of a few bad trees.
Yes every christians are bearing as christ's representative, true but even Paul made this astounding statement that helped me (in understanding) to properly divide
how to view Church and Christians.
Philippians 3:8 (NIV) - What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ.
A Pastor, Deacon, whichever christian can only go so far to be representative of who Christ is but They cannot be our very Lord Jesus Christ, no matter what.
As Christians we still need to look to Christ instead of looking to people as role model in Church and especially in Church!
And that is the key difference in helping us to stay in Church or stay away from Church. And I think I've said before prayer for your family is not an option, you have to pray everyday. And I think it's worth repeating this, if you want to see change then get on your knees and pray aggressively because that is what help us connect to God everyday.
With that being said; I mean consider the Apostles, even they admonished the church of that time not to look to them but to Christ.
Acts 14:15 (NIV) - "Friends, why are you doing this?
We too are only human, like you. We are bringing you good news, telling you to turn from these worthless things to the living God, who made the heavens and the earth and the sea and everything in them.
Acts 10:26 (NIV) - But Peter made him get up. "Stand up," he said, "
I am only a man myself."
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