Hongmoon weapon is the only weapon you can upgrade. You'll be constantly upgrading it using weapons you find.

You need to get the bangle from the wheel of fate to upgrade your weapon once it reaches full evolution at level 5. For FM, it is a purple bangle, I forget whats the name of it. You get it from the weapon box.

You also need to get the complete shield set, 8 pieces.

Last one is optional but you get a pretty sweet costume if you try enough times. All these you only need one of it so don't waste too much time on it.

Are you using WTFast?

I remember reading about some people complaining about being banned for using WTFast in the official forums when I was looking for a good VPN to use for this game. Thats how I ended up with Mudfish.

I tried looking for the topic, I can't find it anymore.

Here's the thread:

https://forums.bladeandsoul.com/topic/157195-wtfast-and-bns/

Apparently it is banned by accident. You can drop them an email to ask them to unban you.

It only drops off Blackram Narrows Dungeon as one of the possible completion rewards. Tried cross-server?

Hongmoon weapon is the only weapon you'll be using. You need to keep evolving it. No other weapon you find in the game matches what it gives you.

I am in a clan with my/sg players, is quite a small clan but we are quite active at night.

I am using...which server u connected to?

Aren't u supposed to connect to the nearest server with lowest ms instead of US??
Should be connect to SG server le.

Haha am not sure le... Need expert clarification.
Becoz usually i will just pick the lowest ms when run through the check.