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 How do u know when a guy is interested on you?

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Yukirin
post Jun 12 2007, 03:05 PM

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QUOTE(voyance @ Jun 11 2007, 01:20 AM)
what if the guy's eye contact, body lauguage n the way he treats u alrealy show that he likes u (feed u, share food with u, willing to bring u to meet his frens n etc..), but sometimes the way he talk seems like he is not, such as suggest that u can go out with other guys (but he won't reject to go out with u) or says that he scare of commitment n want to focus on career first (but he can be with u whenever u need him)?? so what is that means?
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Well,frankly speaking, he likes you but his feeling is unsure and at the same time he doesn't have confident...

He probably thinks like this,

"IF she thinks that I'm good enough for her, she probably will show some hint. Otherwise, try to draw a line between us to keep it the current way"

AND

"Can I made her happy ? I neither wants to hurt her or being hurt"

LAST

"IF ever she found a person she likes more than ever, I'll wish her a good relationship.
Otherwise, I will be with her whenever she needs me"


So this will probably end up just a so call "brother & sister friendship" if it drag too long. If you do have feeling for him, then show it if not give a hint that you only want to maintain it this way nothing more.

P.S: This is just my experience and I definitely don't want to recall back since it does made me feel stupid for lack of confident. Even now I still trying to build up my confident due to my work(related to consultancy).

 

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