Ladies,

If a guy is nice to you all time and always be there for you whenever you need him (to fetch you, do assignment, etc), would you give him a chance to date you?

This post has been edited by curiosity007: Dec 12 2015, 09:10 PM

Obviously.....

He's a doormat.

If a women likes you, she will respect you and not treat you like a doormat.

Plus, guys are not allowed to open threads here.

I know I would. I'm about to marry one in fact.

My advice to the guys is, there's a fine line between being a doormat & a nice guy who receives appreciation for always being kind. Fine the line and make sure that you're not on the doormat side of the line.

And to the girls, please date guys who treat you nicely. Don't be stupid and go looking for a cheap thrill by going after men who play games. Look for emotional stability for a start.

One may argue that we cannot control our feelings. And I gree. But to a certain extent. Life is also affected by the choices we make. So learn to be more level-headed than following our heart too much.

*Doormats don't necessarily exist in a boy-girl relationship. I know a lot of people treat their "friends" as doormats too.

Nice guys doesnt mean have to do a lot of stuff, nice guys can be respectful...gentlemen....speak gently...and vulgar is such a turn off for me

Some guys treat a girl really good because they have motif. Take atleast a little time to observe...if u find he is ok to u then why not give him a chance. But not to put all your feeling in just him coz incase anything you will not be hurt so much. Just treat him as a sample for you to try. Rmb, there are alot of samples outdise for you to try. Try until you find the right one.

I hate male that treat ppl well with intention of sleeping with her etc

Btw, male is not allowed to open thread here. Tq

well, piap2 is just bonus of getting into relationship.

or maybe u would like to date this TS's bf
https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=3813136&hl=

who doesn't like a nice guy?

I will definitely choose a nice guy over a bad boy.. but provided, the nice is only to me and not to all the fishes in the sea..

Along the run it's not impossible. In the end, we tend to fall for those who make us feel comfortable the most to spend the rest of our lives with.

Agreed, can't believe some women even misuse the word 'feminist' lol. Said feminist, but most of the time the guy have to foot the bill for the woman. Shameless really.
As for the thrill part I guess it depends on age and experience. Like when I was in my teens I admit I was hoping for a perfect guy, I was hoping for a man who is like prince charming yada yada as I was still naive. But as I grow old, I tend to look more into personality and whether or not the guy I date will be a good husband and father in future.

Yeah, for sure. I hate players or men who are mean, rude and doesn't respect others.
I don't fall for bad guy, they're not attractive in many ways