IMO sex is needed in a relationship, but of course should not be forced to the extent like in TS's case. It's not wrong to have pre-maritial sex, just wrong morally which differ's to each and every different person. I think sanook and wacky-angel just have some misunderstanding between them tho, sanook does not really mean that we must have sex everyday hour in a relationship, but in a relationship sex for the guy and the girl is equally important and very well normal, but there's no need to rush it. (Though i agree that 3 years is kinda abit torture for the guy lol). But wacky-angel isnt right o say that a guy can survive sex until after marriage or when the girl is ready, because i think it should be a mental torture for the guy to be like that. And one of the reason why wacky-angel is of sure in his relationship is maybe because birds of the same feather flock together (no offence just my opinion).
I think just there's 2 parties here which have different opinions and morality, and we all each have our own ways of living life. Sorry if i offended anyone in this post