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you can't avoid enforcing in a country. it's what makes a country a country. there are laws to uphold.  and there are different needs and priorities. the japanese would enforce japanese, the arabs would enforce arabic, so on and so forth.
Learning the language of the land isn't supposed to be an issue. But many people still take issue.
I'm not saying Malaysia is perfect, but we're in a country... it's a place with structure.  a Malaysian should at least be able to converse in BM to speak with other malaysians (unless you don't plan on conversing much with the malays in malaysia. In this case I say up to you lah.. but we hidup mesti bercampur sebagai negara berbilang bangsa).
It's not just about the language itself. It's also about the identity of Malaysia, some people might not see it as being important but many do.
Of course, there are many other issues that is more important. I agree, but that does not mean to just throw our national language away...

just like a parent have no rights over their children, or a company no rights over what their employees need or need not have? in Malaysia, the Government asks it's people to speak the national language. I think it's a fair enough requirement.

forgive me if I misunderstood. but are you implying that the government is a different example from parents and Companies?  thus the analogy itself is incompatible?