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post Oct 25 2015, 11:13 PM, updated 11y ago

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Dear Thelma,

I have been married for 5 years now. My relationship with my wife has been so-so all these years. My sex life has not been very satisfactory although I have been faithful to her. Deep inside me, I yearn for a better relationship with my wife. She hardly initiates intimate moments although she would oblige whenever I take the lead. I would rate my sex life as below par.

Now she shuns sex and doesn’t seem bothered about my needs. For the past two years, we barely had 10 intimate moments. She is very passive and doesn’t show any interest in sex. Do you have any advice for our predicament? – Helpless
http://www.star2.com/family/relationships/...s-in-the-dumps/

Ok k please answer on behalf of Thelma
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:14 PM

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maybe she is having period?

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post Oct 25 2015, 11:14 PM

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2min pancut. How to blame wife.. Need her side of reason also
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:14 PM

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Find new wife lor. Or makan luar poi. Maybe she already cheated on this thelma guy anyway.
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:15 PM

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post Oct 25 2015, 11:15 PM

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she probably have another better sosej drilling her ady
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:18 PM

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QUOTE(herojack41 @ Oct 25 2015, 11:15 PM)
she probably have another better sosej drilling her ady
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I can't think of anything else than this
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:19 PM

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Seems to me like she is an asexual.. hmm.gif


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post Oct 25 2015, 11:22 PM

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I am not sure you guys believe it or not...

It's EITHER

Some ladies are atypical and non-interested in sex at all..

OR

the guy is really lousy in sex...
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:25 PM

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post Oct 25 2015, 11:26 PM

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Syukur la.
Most /k/ only got their left hand.
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:26 PM

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Must be Chinese girl. Deadfish
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:26 PM

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post Oct 25 2015, 11:27 PM

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the best thing to do is to have an open conversation with her

sometimes these conversations can get ugly....so be prepared for it

keep an open mind and discuss things outs.....it is hard to leave the emotions away...but as much as you can...stay calm
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:28 PM

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Maybe she was rape victim before but she keep it in the heart
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:28 PM

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its time to use back right & left hand
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:29 PM

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Actually there is medical condition where a female body, looks like wiman but gene coding is xxy
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:29 PM

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QUOTE(xpole @ Oct 25 2015, 11:26 PM)
Must be Chinese girl. Deadfish
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i mean

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post Oct 25 2015, 11:30 PM

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QUOTE(Belieber505 @ Oct 25 2015, 11:19 PM)
Seems to me like she is an asexual..  hmm.gif
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:31 PM

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QUOTE(herojack41 @ Oct 25 2015, 10:15 AM)
she probably have another better sosej drilling her ady
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Came to my mind when I first read the article lol.
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QUOTE(Belieber505 @ Oct 25 2015, 11:19 PM)
Seems to me like she is an asexual..  hmm.gif
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Sounds like me. I don't feel the need for sex but I love cuddling :3
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:33 PM

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QUOTE(gs20 @ Oct 25 2015, 11:26 PM)
Syukur la.
Most /k/ only got their left hand.
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:33 PM

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post Oct 25 2015, 11:38 PM

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QUOTE(chokia @ Oct 25 2015, 11:13 PM)
How is thelma look like? Any picture ?
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post Oct 25 2015, 11:42 PM

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QUOTE(gs20 @ Oct 25 2015, 11:26 PM)
Syukur la.
Most /k/ only got their left hand.
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dont discriminate those who use right hand! mad.gif
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QUOTE(seijiseimura84 @ Oct 25 2015, 11:29 PM)
Actually there is medical condition where a female body, looks like wiman but gene coding is xxy
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That is Klienfelter's syndrome... nod.gif

A patient with Klienfelter's is still biologically a male (male genitalia).
But, they are usually sterile and might have some female characteristics due to the double x. nod.gif

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QUOTE(SadSoul @ Oct 25 2015, 11:30 PM)
just like you
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QUOTE(manypplwan @ Oct 25 2015, 11:31 PM)
Sounds like me. I don't feel the need for sex but I love cuddling :3
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post Oct 26 2015, 12:10 AM

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QUOTE(Belieber505 @ Oct 25 2015, 11:45 PM)
That is Klienfelter's syndrome...  nod.gif

A patient with Klienfelter's is still biologically a male (male genitalia).
But, they are usually sterile and might have some female characteristics due to the double x.  nod.gif
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I dont quite remember..but i watch the house. Ifs rare....alll physical, including sexual organ is female. But only genetic code has y element
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post Oct 26 2015, 08:45 AM

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QUOTE(pineapplegrenade @ Oct 25 2015, 11:14 PM)
Find new wife lor. Or makan luar poi. Maybe she already cheated on this thelma guy anyway.
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QUOTE(tan88122 @ Oct 25 2015, 11:38 PM)
How is thelma look like? Any picture ?
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Dey, Thelma is columnist in the star paper before the day of internet. She probably imaginary persona created for the section. If she is a real person she could probably very very old.
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post Oct 26 2015, 08:59 AM

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QUOTE(Belieber505 @ Oct 25 2015, 11:45 PM)
That is Klienfelter's syndrome...  nod.gif

A patient with Klienfelter's is still biologically a male (male genitalia).
But, they are usually sterile and might have some female characteristics due to the double x.  nod.gif
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In other words, pandan..
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Still getting some action with partner = Sex life below par.
If no partner/no/never had sex? Failure in sex life?
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post Oct 26 2015, 09:05 AM

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post Oct 26 2015, 09:09 AM

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QUOTE(tan88122 @ Oct 25 2015, 11:38 PM)
How is thelma look like? Any picture ?
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THIS

let /k experts analyze whether she got curi makan by seeing the picture
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QUOTE(tlts @ Oct 26 2015, 09:05 AM)
no skill.need jejilat and hit g.spot
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GF dun like jilat2 and cucuk use hand...

in fact, she always say sex feel awkward cry.gif
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post Oct 26 2015, 09:11 AM

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GF dun like jilat2 and cucuk use hand...

in fact, she always say sex feel awkward  cry.gif
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kecian...try la new theme
bdsm/inside car/in the lift/public places...give her some thrill
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QUOTE(lorrydriverrocks @ Oct 26 2015, 09:11 AM)
kecian...try la new theme
bdsm/inside car/in the lift/public places...give her some thrill
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touch her sikit aja at public place already marah2 vmad.gif

sigh...
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post Oct 26 2015, 09:15 AM

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usually when women become disinterested in sex it has to be the guy, or that she has been having extramarital affairs.

if its the guy, he is either
-impotent due to ejaculating too much. erectile powers all come from semen and hence semen retention is very important that guys shouldn't ejaculate everytime they have sex / masturbate.

-too much sexual fantasizing as a result of influence from porn

-demand too much sex and never connect body mind and soul, just bodily connection without any consideration over other aspects

-couldn't satisfy her and make her reach orgasmic gratification, in short, could be due erectile dysfunction

- too much foreplay and lack of prolonged penetrative sex everytime
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QUOTE(jacky91 @ Oct 26 2015, 09:12 AM)
touch her sikit aja at public place already marah2  vmad.gif

sigh...
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i think u body problem liao
go gym become muscle man, then when u touch her she wet
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post Oct 26 2015, 09:16 AM

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QUOTE(max_cjs0101 @ Oct 26 2015, 09:05 AM)
Still getting some action with partner = Sex life below par.
If no partner/no/never had sex? Failure in sex life?
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in this modern world, intimate relation in important

especially when you're married

if you do not intimate with each other for a long time, eventually the bridge will rust and things are just waiting to drop down the river.

i'm not saying sex = love, but its a way to maintain the relationship, a huge boost.
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post Oct 26 2015, 09:19 AM

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either she's asexual or she's lesbian
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QUOTE(lorrydriverrocks @ Oct 26 2015, 09:16 AM)
i think u body problem liao
go gym become muscle man, then when u touch her she wet
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haha...will try to
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QUOTE(EternalC @ Oct 26 2015, 09:16 AM)
in this modern world, intimate relation in important

especially when you're married

if you do not intimate with each other for a long time, eventually the bridge will rust and things are just waiting to drop down the river.

i'm not saying sex = love, but its a way to maintain the relationship, a huge boost.
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QUOTE(olman @ Oct 26 2015, 09:47 AM)
Theres no luv only lust
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i wish u luck in finding one soon

#notsarcasm
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makan luar. because, why never attend sexual needs.
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u r married. this make the situation more tricky
i suggest u talk to her.c what's wrong with u guys?it could be u, u know?don't jump into conclusion and blame her first
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QUOTE(darksider @ Oct 26 2015, 09:15 AM)
usually when women become disinterested in sex it has to be the guy, or that she has been having extramarital affairs.

if its the guy, he is either
-impotent due to ejaculating too much. erectile powers all come from semen and hence semen retention is very important that guys shouldn't ejaculate everytime they have sex / masturbate.

-too much sexual fantasizing as a result of influence from porn

-demand too much sex and never connect body mind and soul, just bodily connection without any consideration over other aspects

-couldn't satisfy her and make her reach orgasmic gratification, in short, could be due erectile dysfunction

- too much foreplay and lack of prolonged penetrative sex everytime
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It is increasingly true if you notice that a woman will have sex with man she loves even when she doesn't like it, and a woman won't have sex with the man if she doesn't love him.

Sex if woman's way of expressing love, and unlike men that is able to separate sex and love, for most of woman sex is love.

Hence to answer TS question, if a wife isn't excited in the bed after marriage. Chances are she never loved the man to begin with. He is just an additional accessory in her life.
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post Oct 26 2015, 12:16 PM

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Upgrade to awek. Sex life will improve 100x.
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QUOTE(v1n0d @ Oct 26 2015, 12:16 PM)
Upgrade to awek. Sex life will improve 100x.
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QUOTE(v1n0d @ Oct 26 2015, 12:16 PM)
Upgrade to awek. Sex life will improve 100x.
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maybe the writer oso cold fish during sex. no foreplay then cucuk 2 times pancut dy. of course the wife not interested.
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QUOTE(ohman @ Oct 26 2015, 12:36 PM)
How many have you tried? brows.gif
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post Oct 26 2015, 03:19 PM

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QUOTE(olman @ Oct 26 2015, 09:47 AM)
Theres no luv only lust
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Please enlighten what is luv to you..


If it is only lust and no love.. The guy would have just simply go out find some1 to release his sexual desire.. rclxub.gif


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