My ex got very excited and nervous the first time we made love, it was fast but it was still good. I guess part of the reason is that your bf is very into you and finds you very attractive. Of course he does have other problems too. Could be psychologically. Maybe a therapist/psychologist will help if all
Other methods fail.
By the way, may I ask the girls who read this post, when you are single and have no sleeping partner, do u ever feel the urge to have sex and how do you go about it?