Yes it is. You just need to revise your expectation of what is sweet, sexy and hot.

It sounds like your frustration is mostly due to the fact that you do not achieve orgasm. You mentioned that your BF ejaculates prematurely even while he is performing oral sex on you; well, he just needs to keep going. Sex doesn't have to end immediately upon his orgasm. Also, there's nothing wrong with you masturbating yourself during sex. You can hold him and kiss him while you bring yourself to orgasm.

Above all, be patient and loving and kind. Sex is something that gets better with practice. There's nothing wrong with him that time and patience can't cure. And honestly, if he knows how to give you oral sex, he's already better in bed than most men.

This post has been edited by n00b13: Oct 28 2015, 11:39 AM

Again, don't think of "a completed 1" as the only way you can have sex. There are lots of other ways, and you can try them all so that sex doesn't have to be frustrating. And certainly, the more you do it, the better you both get at it until you can finally have your "completed 1". But by then you may find out that you prefer other ways - you never know unless you try them all