ask your bf to visit www.nofap.com or reddit.com/r/nofap as well as http://yourbrainonporn.com/, he must have had excessive masturbation habit as well as watching too much porn.

from tcm perspective, his condition is 肾虚 which is caused by excessive ejaculation resulting in loss of libido. symptoms include - loss of morning glory, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation, profused sweating, loss of stamina, premature grey hair / balding, bad breathe, bad temper (easily go on fire), loss of socializing, bad memory.

usually for guys they mostly reach their 'menopause' period after 70 of age. but most guys today get those symptoms @ 15 / 20 / 25 / 30 due to porn being too easily accessible. All ejaculations result in loss of sexual energy, and for guys, its the male hormone that is affected the most.

I know the feeling and how badly it affects all the lovemaking sessions, but i ask you to give him a chance, visit those website and read how porn affects the guys and make them prematurely sexually impotent and then talk to him about it.

I am also one of the victim of porn era, being addicted as early as 2002 when i was 12, and spent most of the time watching porn and masturbating, in just 3 years time i had all the symptoms of male menopause aka 肾亏and my gf has experienced similar things during the early days of our relationship, and it badly affected our relationship and i felt shit of course. However, ever since i changed few years ago (basically no more porn use), i started to enjoy normal sexual life again, and there is no more premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction problems. My grey hair, from 40% at the age of 15, to now less than 10% in age of 25.

finding western docs and taking viagra wont solve it but will only make matters worst.



This post has been edited by darksider: Oct 16 2015, 12:45 PM

just ask if he fapped too much. and if he fapped too much, show him the website and he will understand.

acupuncture will not help much if he doesnt change his habit that drains all his potent energy. basically he will need to refrain from watching porn and masturbate + ejaculate over it.

does he still have his morning glory now?

check your finger nails. look at your 5 fingers, in each root of the finger nails, there are whitish material.

in healthy male, the whitish material should compose of 20% of the total length from the bottom of fingernail to the finger tip [finger nail will grow over the tip, so exclude that height)

for instance, after 8 years of masturbation, i only got my thumbs having 10% whitish material. When i started to recover, three other fingers start to grow the whitish material.

according to tcm, the whitish materials indicates your energy level (including sexual energy).

i have lost my morning glory since 16 and only started to have it back 2-3 years after my recovery.


other symptoms include

* grey hair
* spot bald
* balding
* bad breath
* bad skin (face)
* early ejaculation

This post has been edited by darksider: Jan 2 2016, 12:54 AM

you can check here and see either its yin-xu or yang-xu for your case.

http://www.tcmbasics.com/syndromes_zf_kidney.htm

if you want more details, you should consult any local TCM practitioner, and they will surely advise you on this aspect, and they will tell you what to eat to better recover your kidney.

for men, the symptoms of balding and grey hair are mutually exclusive. Some people experience grey hair growth, some bald. That's why for guys that bald, you hardly see grey hair, but for guys who have grey hair, they hardly bald. for my case i had grey hair since 13 and it recovered from 80% to 20% density after i recovered. and during serious time, i also had spot bald (which usually recovers in 1-2 mths ; check http://www.drugs.com/health-guide/alopecia-areata.html)

for recovery, refrain from watching porn, because watching too much porn will result in your brain being wired, making you less sensitive to natural sex appeal and more reliant on porn use ( for instance, if you watch too many porn, you will find that you are only stimulated when you see new girls etc, and those girls that you have seen much (old sitmuli) won't be able to stimulate you at all, and that can lead to marriage dysfunction (need to swing, and bored having sex with same girl (wife)

don't ejaculate every single time you have sex. Any ejaculation robs you of energy and nutrients.

If you press the spot between the anus and penis, called the 'million dollar point', it will prevent ejaculation but not orgasm. Masturbation is also a good way to practice ejaculation control using the locking method. for locking method, check http://www.whale.to/a/locking_the_gate.html

" When a man feels on the verge of ejaculation, he should always restrain himself and be sure to bring the woman to orgasm. He should draw the Jade Stem (penis) out shallowly and play it between the Lute Strings -(frenulum of clitoris) and Wheat Buds (Labia minor)...... He should concentrate his mind, press his tongue against the roof of his mouth, arch his spine and stretch out his neck, clench his fists and feet as if clawing the floor. At the same time, he should open his nostrils wide, close his mouth and swallow a deep breath. Clenching his jaw and love muscles with nine rapid contractions. Directing his eyes to look up at the Pai-Hui (Pineal gland - crown of the head), he can guide the rising Ching Chi (aroused orgasm energy) away from the genitals into the body. If he does this in time, he will not ejaculate. Instead, the semen will return and the orgasm energy will ascend naturally, by itself. In this manner, a man may completely regulate his ejaculation ". - The Taoist physician Lee Tung Hsuan.

traditional chinese medicine

just go to tcm and have them check.

they look at your hair quality, fingernails, your teeth and skin texture they can easily diagnose.

then follow their advice and prescription.

reputed in kepong

http://www.taipeitcm.com/v3/

Address: No. 7, Jalan 2/33B, MWE Commercial Park, Batu 6 ½, Off Jalan Kepong, 52000 Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
Phone:+60 3-6063 1231

not sure, u can call them or check the website.

http://www.taipeitcm.com/v3/p_contact.php