If no one has ever found you attractive then I guess you're probably just boring in general.
And no, being interesting doesn't mean you cannot be nice.
shy guy with a problem
shy guy with a problem
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Oct 6 2015, 11:03 AM
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6,024 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: Suldanessellar |
If no one has ever found you attractive then I guess you're probably just boring in general.
And no, being interesting doesn't mean you cannot be nice. |
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Oct 6 2015, 11:28 AM
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734 posts Joined: Feb 2006 From: Penang |
where are the friendzone supporters?
i dont want these bad people telling me i'm boring and unattractive i want people to tell me that FRIENDZONE is bad, and girls are selfish for putting nice guys in FRIENDZONE |
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Oct 6 2015, 11:51 AM
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309 posts Joined: Jan 2014 From: kuala lumpur |
QUOTE(xecton @ Oct 6 2015, 12:28 PM) where are the friendzone supporters? Typical loser that blame ppl instead of improving themselves/ seek other chance leli dont want these bad people telling me i'm boring and unattractive i want people to tell me that FRIENDZONE is bad, and girls are selfish for putting nice guys in FRIENDZONE |
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Oct 6 2015, 11:51 AM
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6,024 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: Suldanessellar |
They put you into that zone because they think you're a nice, good friend.
How is that a bad and selfish thing? |
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Oct 6 2015, 12:57 PM
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QUOTE(xecton @ Oct 6 2015, 11:28 AM) where are the friendzone supporters? If you don't want to be in the friendzone then don't be friends with her. Simple. Move on and no longer invest in her. i dont want these bad people telling me i'm boring and unattractive i want people to tell me that FRIENDZONE is bad, and girls are selfish for putting nice guys in FRIENDZONE You call yourself a nice guy coming out statements like that. Lol. |
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Oct 6 2015, 01:28 PM
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734 posts Joined: Feb 2006 From: Penang |
QUOTE(dinoxzkiller @ Oct 6 2015, 11:51 AM) this is an example, i've been nothing but nice and courteous to you all these time while you show much disdain to me with your disparaging remarks. QUOTE(khelben @ Oct 6 2015, 11:51 AM) They put you into that zone because they think you're a nice, good friend. but friendzone is not good for meHow is that a bad and selfish thing? QUOTE(Drian @ Oct 6 2015, 12:57 PM) If you don't want to be in the friendzone then don't be friends with her. Simple. Move on and no longer invest in her. if not friends with those girls, then how to get gf?You call yourself a nice guy coming out statements like that. Lol. i dont want those ugly ones |
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Oct 6 2015, 01:57 PM
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6,024 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: Suldanessellar |
Haha, you're trolling only is it?
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Oct 6 2015, 02:25 PM
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309 posts Joined: Jan 2014 From: kuala lumpur |
Stay with this attitude forever, tq
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Oct 6 2015, 02:42 PM
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90 posts Joined: Jul 2013 |
QUOTE(xecton @ Oct 5 2015, 02:26 PM) hi guys, i'm a shy guy, especially with the ladies. Dear TS,i'm a good person, a filial son to my parents, and i greatly respect women. but i have a problem, i couldnt get a gf. there has been a few candidates before but in the end, they always choose other guys (mostly jerks). i'm always very nice to them, help them with homework, fetch them to work (or anywhere), good morning/night messages, buy them starbucks, listen to their problems and complaints, always sided with them in any conflicts. and they respond nicely to me too. so why cant they choose me to be their bf? sometimes late at night, i think it's because i'm a loser. but i know that i'm a very good person, so it's not true that i'm a loser. so why am i not their bf?! i know they like me too. oh.... i know, they have put me in the FRIENDZONE!!! It's obvious that whatever you have tried, it isn't working. That is why you started this thread. So let's see what we can do. Take this from a badboy player, then nice guy, bad boy player now normal person (me). I have done both and I can tell you, a mix of both works. Too badboy also cannot, boring cos piap so many girl till sien, too good, NO ONE will like you. Once, I broke up and decided to revamp myself to be super nice, caring, fetch up n down, buy drinks, etc, 1 and half years no girl layan me. I have above average looks and medium class too btw. instead of reinventing yourself to be a total player, let's see how we can modify some things about you. Stop being a boy and be a man. You have to have this attitude, FUCK them la, they should wanna be with me. Invest in yourself - your looks, your character, your clothes, watever the heck makes your value go higher. Instead of helping them with their homework, ask them to do your homework, and then you buy them a starbucks. Be playful, no fucks attitude. Fetch them to work? No freaking way, I once wanted to bang this girl, she ask me to pick her up, i told her take cab herself, and I send her home, she agreed. Ok a bad example but still, you have to have the 'no farks attitude' that if you lose the chance, no worries, others will come cos you are awesome. Why side with them when got conflicts?? Do you have an opinion? If so, say it but be tactful, a real woman will respect you for that, and then she gets the hots for you as you dare to be a man - trust me this freaking works. Girls can smell a loser, and right now you stink of a frequently used doormat. But you can change that in a flash, change your mindset. Yes it's good to be a gentleman, good friend etc but hell that all can come later. You can to project some kind of energy that is powerful, independent.. like a man. |
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Oct 6 2015, 03:49 PM
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734 posts Joined: Feb 2006 From: Penang |
are you guys saying that i'm not in the FRIENDZONE but is just undesirable?
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Oct 6 2015, 04:59 PM
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Yalar... dun treat girl too nice. They will treat u as brotherhood
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Oct 6 2015, 11:33 PM
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52 posts Joined: Jun 2011 |
Be nice to everyone, not just girls.
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Oct 6 2015, 11:58 PM
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Girls never put guy in friendzone. Except you have no initiative and balls to break the ice. What i read from your post is you trying to be friendly thats all which mean you friendzone yourself. Why not ask her out? Since you can be friendly im sure you have guts to ask a girl out. If girls already have bf then dont waste time and a real guy never steal from another guy unless she decide to tell you her problem but know this some guys are crazy to take revenge thats why screw driver is not a good thing to do.
Once you invite a girl out im sure you know what to do next already. Anyway for girls to invite guys out its very rare thing. So be the one who ask her out which also mean you break out your own friendzone barrier. Since you are the girls friend you can ask them straight also got bf or not? Then take the chance to invite them out. Whats the plan? Lol as a man make your own plan. Lastly you dont need to be bad guy or good guy. Just invite a girl out = win This post has been edited by dragynraken: Oct 7 2015, 12:05 AM |
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Nov 1 2015, 12:02 AM
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6,024 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: Suldanessellar |
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Nov 2 2015, 05:55 PM
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u just do whatever opposite than your current behaviour, you will get a gf.
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Nov 3 2015, 11:50 AM
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QUOTE(xecton @ Oct 6 2015, 01:28 PM) this is an example, i've been nothing but nice and courteous to you all these time while you show much disdain to me with your disparaging remarks. This is lowyat. What do you expect? Everyone is on your side?As a girl, reading what you posted, I wouldn't wanna date you. Sound so arrogant. Some of them are helping you by telling you their experiences and everything. Why don't you show some appreciation to them instead. |
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Nov 3 2015, 08:17 PM
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Being nice and become dumpling for others and cleaning other people's mess and get friendzoned. A bit sad right, but the truth is good men often finish last. My advice is to strike, but strike gently like tai chi because girls are sensitive beings.
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