QUOTE(carini @ Sep 21 2015, 02:51 AM)
U has repeatedly said u like pretty gal. Now the gal's love for u may not be so deep, let it go. If u continue further, it will only further hurt her feeling.
Even when u r out with her, u look at pretty gal. Deep inside, u actually already know u cannot accept her look at this very moment. Takkan u want her wait for u 10 years, while u get to know/play/be with other pretty gal, then u r confirm u like her, then u return back to her?
U dun get what u want always. Timing is one matter also. At this moment, just let go of her. She may be hurt, but better than her love for u is too deep, then u r hurting her more.
There is nothing wrong when u declare loudly and r confident that u like pretty gal. But it will be very wrong if u keep going and continuing with her, and deep inside u r struggling and cannot accept her. Let her go, she will meet with a guy who can accept her one day, but it is not you.
U already have the answer, act on it. Dun prolong this matter, both will suffer.
May u find a pretty lady with kind heart and love u with all her heart one day.
Agree. My thoughts exactly. If looks is a big issue for you, which it is, since you actually took the time to write a lengthy thread, and if she does not have the looks, then you should let her go. It is better for her because you will not hurt her feelings and for you because then you can move on. Even when u r out with her, u look at pretty gal. Deep inside, u actually already know u cannot accept her look at this very moment. Takkan u want her wait for u 10 years, while u get to know/play/be with other pretty gal, then u r confirm u like her, then u return back to her?
U dun get what u want always. Timing is one matter also. At this moment, just let go of her. She may be hurt, but better than her love for u is too deep, then u r hurting her more.
There is nothing wrong when u declare loudly and r confident that u like pretty gal. But it will be very wrong if u keep going and continuing with her, and deep inside u r struggling and cannot accept her. Let her go, she will meet with a guy who can accept her one day, but it is not you.
U already have the answer, act on it. Dun prolong this matter, both will suffer.
May u find a pretty lady with kind heart and love u with all her heart one day.
You may try to rationalized that "maybe I can adapt to her looks" but deep down inside you know that will never happen. You are basically coming here to seek validation by writing this thread, procrastinating from doing what is necessary because it is painful and also because you fear that you can never get another girl.