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TeamDF69
post Oct 20 2015, 02:22 PM

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QUOTE(carini @ Sep 21 2015, 02:51 AM)
U has repeatedly said u like pretty gal. Now the gal's love for u may not be so deep, let it go. If u continue further, it will only further hurt her feeling.

Even when u r out with her, u look at pretty gal. Deep inside, u actually already know u cannot accept her look at this very moment. Takkan u want her wait for u 10 years, while u get to know/play/be with other pretty gal, then u r confirm u like her, then u return back to her?

U dun get what u want always. Timing is one matter also. At this moment, just let go of her. She may be hurt, but better than her love for u is too deep, then u r hurting her more.

There is nothing wrong when u declare loudly and r confident that u like pretty gal. But it will be very wrong if u keep going and continuing with her, and deep inside u r struggling and cannot accept her. Let her go, she will meet with a guy who can accept her one day, but it is not you.

U already have the answer, act on it. Dun prolong this matter, both will suffer.
May u find a pretty lady with kind heart and love u with all her heart one day.
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Agree. My thoughts exactly. If looks is a big issue for you, which it is, since you actually took the time to write a lengthy thread, and if she does not have the looks, then you should let her go. It is better for her because you will not hurt her feelings and for you because then you can move on.

You may try to rationalized that "maybe I can adapt to her looks" but deep down inside you know that will never happen. You are basically coming here to seek validation by writing this thread, procrastinating from doing what is necessary because it is painful and also because you fear that you can never get another girl.
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post Oct 20 2015, 02:26 PM

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even with the most pretty one, if u met her daily also bored. especially when u know what lies under that cloth. so, appreciate what u have. think positive.
ihsansyairazyy
post Oct 20 2015, 03:32 PM

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Drillz or gtfo
MiLKTea
post Oct 20 2015, 03:49 PM

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Please leave her.
She deserves someone much much better.

Btw, you think all pretty girls will fall for handsome boys?
And physical beauty fades, you know...
Inner beauty don't...
alex_kff
post Oct 21 2015, 09:53 AM

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arspresso,
what happen if your own daughter is not pretty??? ever think of this???

anyway pretty/handsome doesn't belong to you. even she/he married to you. she/he still belong to someone. why???? find out yourself.
ck_boon
post Oct 21 2015, 10:02 AM

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u want /k typical answers?

piap 1st, talks later
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post Oct 21 2015, 10:02 AM

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QUOTE(ihsansyairazyy @ Oct 20 2015, 04:32 PM)
Drillz or gtfo
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this is not /k
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post Oct 21 2015, 10:06 AM

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A not so attractive wife but good in bed and can get along well with you is BETTER than a trophy wife but sex sucks and u cant talk to her.
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post Nov 7 2015, 02:01 AM

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Wat u treated her as spare tayer? Shanghai gal u dump her, u no need come back, u will kena gao gao. U never heard "去上海的男人是不用“存”的”
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post Nov 7 2015, 05:50 PM

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Pot calling the kettle black, u very handsome?

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