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TSElmo2288
post Sep 4 2015, 12:48 PM, updated 9y ago

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I know this girl when she was my ex-colleague. We getting very close, everyday we chat,voice call, video call.
We keep chatting everything and mostly is she talk more and i listen. She always complain about work and my ex-colleague bad thing, she talk about her ex-boyfriend and she even talk about her bed story.(she say when she come period thy still having xxx and more)
People around me keep questioning me, do you like this girl and i always say yes.
When she boyfriend coming over, she completely throw me a side and having xxx with her boyfriend.
When she boyfriend is busy then she will come chat with me, talk to me.
When she is boring then she will ask me to entertain her.
Somehow i feel like i be treated like a toy. She keep saying tht we are best friend.
And i did tell her tht i like her and she scold me like shiiittt.
And i try to avoid her and she say i attutite her and she even cry when we voice call. I can't even concentrate work she keep spamming me.
To be honest, entertaining her, secret, talk ppl back, even disturb is not my duty,
It's suppose to be her boyfriend.
What to do with this girl, should i mia?
If i continued it i'll completely crazy over this girl.
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post Sep 4 2015, 12:52 PM

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don't continue man, if she XXX wif you only, that's okay,...

but if she xxxing with other ppl, and treat you as spare tayar, then she ain't worth it....

normally dun XXX la b4 marriage, not gud lehh...
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post Sep 4 2015, 12:55 PM

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QUOTE(Kanan Jarrus @ Sep 4 2015, 12:52 PM)
don't continue man, if she XXX wif you only, that's okay,...

but if she xxxing with other ppl, and treat you as spare tayar, then she ain't worth it....

normally dun XXX la b4 marriage, not gud lehh...
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what did i just read ? you dr. phil ? bruh ....
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post Sep 4 2015, 12:57 PM

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QUOTE(dr.evil @ Sep 4 2015, 12:55 PM)
what did i just read ? you dr. phil ? bruh ....
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who daheck is Dr.Phil lol???

btw did i say anything wrong, its just my 2 cents lel
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post Sep 4 2015, 01:06 PM

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I just had headache comprehending what you wrote.

"Somehow i feel like i be treated like a toy. She keep saying tht we are best friend.
And i did tell her tht i like her and she scold me like shiiittt".


Your answer is in your post itself, its simple. See above. Don't overthink, plus you sure this is the type of woman you want?
Xonius
post Sep 4 2015, 01:26 PM

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LOL, you're a typical doormat. When shes not with her BF, she expects you to make her happy, but when shes with her BF she will totally toss you aside.

Like you said yourself, you're nothing but her convenient and easy to get toy. Cut ties with her immediately, not worth knowing such a girl.
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post Sep 4 2015, 02:14 PM

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Just say your last sentence and move on.
You already f*cked up beginning by giving her away your power by kept ''entertaining'' her!
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post Sep 4 2015, 02:20 PM

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Don't ever expect "anything" in return when girl laying their head on your shoulder...
to them, laying their head over another men's shoulder is kind of "normal", meaning that "i lay my head on yr shoulder because u r my best friend"...
Women can be really complex, like a rubik that can dissolved itself even though u think u just solved it...
My advice, put away your expectation from her, to be or not to be her friend is yr very own choice...
1 more thing, this is 1 of my experiences, if the girl complaining/whining about their current BF, doesn't matter how bad or asshole their describe their BF, mostly their will still be together, and if they(girl) cry to u about their BF, u may pity them, treat them well but NEVER EVER EXPECT THAT THEY WILL LEFT THEIR BF AND BE WITH U...
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shinkawa
post Sep 4 2015, 05:05 PM

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her bf is money provider while you are her toy.

do you wish to continue this life?
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post Sep 4 2015, 05:30 PM

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QUOTE(shinkawa @ Sep 4 2015, 05:05 PM)
her bf is money provider while you are her toy.

do you wish to continue this life?
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As long as the "Toy" gets entertained, I don't see why not biggrin.gif
dr.evil
post Sep 4 2015, 05:34 PM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ Sep 4 2015, 02:20 PM)
NEVER EVER EXPECT THAT THEY WILL LEFT THEIR BF AND BE WITH U...
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^ This some good observation.

TS, you gotta know when to let go:

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post Sep 4 2015, 05:38 PM

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Does anybody know where to find a match making agency? I just pay a fee for it if it match successfully.

Not a despro! Just curious and might end like that.
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post Sep 4 2015, 05:53 PM

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QUOTE(Seremban_2 @ Sep 4 2015, 05:38 PM)
Does anybody know where to find a match making agency? I just pay a fee for it if it match successfully.

Not a despro! Just curious and might end like that.
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Mate ! How about your girl issue ? Still friends and playing hard to get ?

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post Sep 4 2015, 07:25 PM

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QUOTE(Seremban_2 @ Sep 4 2015, 10:38 AM)
Does anybody know where to find a match making agency? I just pay a fee for it if it match successfully.

Not a despro! Just curious and might end like that.
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post Sep 4 2015, 07:39 PM

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QUOTE(dr.evil @ Sep 4 2015, 05:53 PM)
Mate ! How about your girl issue ? Still friends and playing hard to get ?
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Haiz, manage to give MOON CAKE to her family. Currently draft a love poem and with help friend checking. I plan to send together with flower on coming Monday. You know LA, we control our destiny and to achieve what we want in this life.
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post Sep 4 2015, 10:07 PM

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well, she is treating you like a doormat. there are some questions you need to ask yourself.

1. do u like to be treated as doormat? if yes, what is it that u r exactly complaining about? if no, what can you do about this feeling? think of ways to get out too.

2. what r u to her? u can try writing a page of how u feel towards her as a friend and what u dislike. and wait for her reply. if she scolded u bla bla without admitting what she can do to improve... do u think she feels u r important to her? from here i think u'd know whether u r a priority or not.

3. do u want to be with a person that only use u at his or her convenient?

with these questions, i think u can find an answer from ur heart. good luck!
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post Sep 4 2015, 10:13 PM

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QUOTE(Kanan Jarrus @ Sep 4 2015, 12:52 PM)
don't continue man, if she XXX wif you only, that's okay,...

but if she xxxing with other ppl, and treat you as spare tayar, then she ain't worth it....

normally dun XXX la b4 marriage, not gud lehh...
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She didn't want xxx with me but she always tell me about she xbf experience and current bf.
QUOTE(Cookiies @ Sep 4 2015, 01:06 PM)
I just had headache comprehending what you wrote.

"Somehow i feel like i be treated like a toy. She keep saying tht we are best friend.
And i did tell her tht i like her and she scold me like shiiittt".


Your answer is in your post itself, its simple. See above. Don't overthink, plus you sure this is the type of woman you want?
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i don't continue le, i rather bcm nerd.

QUOTE(Xonius @ Sep 4 2015, 01:26 PM)
LOL, you're a typical doormat. When shes not with her BF, she expects you to make her happy, but when shes with her BF she will totally toss you aside.

Like you said yourself, you're nothing but her convenient and easy to get toy. Cut ties with her immediately, not worth knowing such a girl.
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sometimes i pity her but that's enough for me le.
She should stayback with her bf.

QUOTE(sokiahlee @ Sep 4 2015, 02:14 PM)
Just say your last sentence and move on.
You already f*cked up beginning by giving her away your power by kept ''entertaining'' her!
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she said i crazy.
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post Sep 4 2015, 10:18 PM

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QUOTE(yo_yo @ Sep 4 2015, 10:07 PM)
well, she is treating you like a doormat. there are some questions you need to ask yourself.

1. do u like to be treated as doormat? if yes, what is it that u r exactly complaining about? if no, what can you do about this feeling? think of ways to get out too.
No, i just block her and i going to mia.

2. what r u to her? u can try writing a page of how u feel towards her as a friend and what u dislike. and wait for her reply. if she scolded u bla bla without admitting what she can do to improve... do u think she feels u r important to her? from here i think u'd know whether u r a priority or not.

It's not working, i did it past and she say i crazy and shw to her bf tht letter.

3. do u want to be with a person that only use u at his or her convenient?

with these questions, i think u can find an answer from ur heart. good luck!
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i guess i'll just get out of her sight.
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post Sep 4 2015, 10:28 PM

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u macem dia punya doormat je
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post Sep 4 2015, 10:33 PM

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lols
a toy
a doormat
move on boy life shud be merrier wthout her for u dude

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post Sep 5 2015, 11:40 AM

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post Sep 5 2015, 03:05 PM

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QUOTE(Elmo2288 @ Sep 4 2015, 10:18 PM)
i guess i'll just get out of her sight.
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i wish u all the best. go and make new friends! there r a lot of activities at meetup site. good luck!
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post Sep 5 2015, 07:38 PM

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she already comfortable with you kiss her thigh or massage her maybe she will like it
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post Sep 5 2015, 10:14 PM

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QUOTE(Elmo2288 @ Sep 4 2015, 12:48 PM)
I know this girl when she was my ex-colleague. We getting very close, everyday we chat,voice call, video call.
We keep chatting everything and mostly is she talk more and i listen. She always complain about work and my ex-colleague bad thing, she talk about her ex-boyfriend and she even talk about her bed story.(she say when she come period thy still having xxx and more)
People around me keep questioning me, do you like this girl and i always say yes.
When she boyfriend coming over, she completely throw me a side and having xxx with her boyfriend.
When she boyfriend is busy then she will come chat with me, talk to me.
When she is boring then she will ask me to entertain her.
Somehow i feel like i be treated like a toy. She keep saying tht we are best friend.
And i did tell her tht i like her and she scold me like shiiittt.
And i try to avoid her and she say i attutite her and she even cry when we voice call. I can't even concentrate work she keep spamming me.
To be honest, entertaining her, secret, talk ppl back, even disturb is not my duty,
It's suppose to be her boyfriend.
What to do with this girl, should i mia?
If i continued it i'll completely crazy over this girl.
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Simple ts do you get free sex? If yes you can take it as a give and take but if no sex also then please dont waste your time.

Such girl they will use you until she bored of you then ignore you.
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post Sep 5 2015, 10:20 PM

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QUOTE(Seremban_2 @ Sep 4 2015, 07:39 PM)
Haiz, manage to give MOON CAKE to her family. Currently draft a love poem and with help friend checking. I plan to send together with flower on coming Monday. You know LA, we control our destiny and to achieve what we want in this life.
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If you control your destiny then you wont be sending poem and mooncake.

You send nothing also she likes you.
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post Sep 5 2015, 10:56 PM

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QUOTE(Velocity @ Sep 5 2015, 10:20 PM)
If you control your destiny then you wont be sending poem and mooncake.

You send nothing also she likes you.
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Sifuuuuuuu.......got any tips for me or guidance
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post Sep 5 2015, 10:56 PM

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QUOTE(Velocity @ Sep 5 2015, 10:20 PM)
If you control your destiny then you wont be sending poem and mooncake.

You send nothing also she likes you.
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But she pick my call and respond my whatapps
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post Sep 5 2015, 11:04 PM

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U oredi know the answer.. Y are U still allowing it to happen?!
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post Sep 5 2015, 11:37 PM

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QUOTE(Seremban_2 @ Sep 5 2015, 10:56 PM)
But she pick my call and respond my whatapps
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Kawan should be you ignore her. She keep messaging you why you ignore her. A girl response to you doesn't mean she likes you.

You know the bad guy technique. You want her so much that you don't show her you want her

 

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