Rise a a family is not easy and u say. talk is easy do is another thing. Always think twice before u commit..

if marriage need to spend alot of money, cut down on unnecessary expenses need not be so grand bcos later maybe 10/20/30 years time u can have anniversary marriage if u have extra money. its along/hard road for anybody to walk thru life..

The more money u spend the only people suffer is the couples in terms of money later on and to put up a grand show for guest to see and suffering also have the people/relative(some relatives/friends have $$/transports difficulties) to come were force to come and give big angpow attending the wedding.

Troublesome right, giving less angpow not so good, give large angpow can own self go out and eat themselves anywhere they like right..

Whether how u take of yr money depends on how u spend and see things, want to stay big house or comfortable and buy big cars, hired a servant, rise a child, education etc. Alot of hidden cost like honey moon etc... its a heavy budden for the husband indeed unless he is very rich or else there will be a quarrel about money later on for sure. First few years u dont see the effect but later on ..... experience/walk thru life that everybody have to go thru.

The path which a person choose it depends on their thinking some may see very grand but later the true colors will come out.... side effects.. enjoy now suffer later concept...

Most married couple dont even take out to see the wedding photo. Just like a white elephant and collecting dust.

How often people will see wedding photo? percentage is very low. just see once and thats it. Funny about people is when u dont have the things u one it but when u have the things u wanted, it simes not to be interested already.

People want what u want what.

Younger people try to get more money but the rich people want youth and not money.