Why? He's afraid of you on concentrating enough on your studies?
BTW, your family is in U.S with you?

My mum said is okay to have a job as long as not interfere with studies. Besides my job is very simple as a front desk.

You bf local? That's the easy path for getting green card.

Aha very nice.

But just MHO, I think getting married at this age is NO NO    . You still have a long way to go. A lot to learn in time to come. A long way down the road before you get married. When you get into the working world, you meet more people from all walks of life. Just my personal opinion. Sometimes I don't get it why Americans get married right after college.  

Don't get married early. That's my opinion. Get tied down & there goes your future. Unless, got pregnant at early stage. Then no choice lo  

say only... can ur bf tahan? after 1st time then say... a little no harm.. then more and then more and then leak... and then baby... lol... happened to a lot of my local friends

not exactly... i have been to berkeley, UCLA n stanford... if u enter their campus u will realise it is 40% international yellow skin students... no joke... but mostly these students are from US allied countries like japan, HK, taiwan

the best way to enter those elite unis in the west as in west coast is to enter community colleges 1st... then transfer credit in, that's the recommendation of most counsellors there...

UCs accept top 87.5% of their high school grads... wherelse CSUs accept top 70%... so if u really wanna enter... i would say enter a not so established UC or a good CSU... then transfer credit during ur 3rd year

top 87.5% of their percentile is not that hard.. whities.. if u score near straight As during SPM or pre-u ... then u should be able to cope ^^