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> The greatest sin is: make baby, you think it is a game?

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vassilius
post Jul 27 2015, 03:36 PM

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QUOTE(han2019 @ Jul 27 2015, 02:55 PM)
This is the greatest problem of mankind. I think parents are despicable for bring their kid into this world. They are just selfish people.

Tell me, what is the reason you want to make baby?

People take making baby too lightly, they think they got job got money, get a wife, then can make baby liao.

But guess what? It is not that simple. One mistake when bringing up your kid, the world is fucked up. If you want to make a baby, atleast, for the sake of

mankind, do proper planning. If you dun have 100% confidence it will work, then dun make baby.

I know there many reasons that kids get born into this world. But my point is this, a kid is a blank slate, so innocent, whatever you feed him he is going to become that, just like little Chappie ( love that movie, btw).

That is why I think movie, dramas, etc are so fucked up, they make it look like a simple stuff. Let you see all the happiness when you have baby. But hey people,

FACE the reality la! STOP making babies if you cannot give them a good life. Stop making babies if you are not sure what to do with your life.

Only make baby if you know yourself.
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if a rich parent able to give the world to their baby but later died in a car accident? is this the parent's problem, the baby's problem, or the God's problem for allowing such tragic?

can u predict the future? no one can. Life is a very funny thing where u won't able to know what's gonna happen next.

Family planning is one thing, but whether it will go according to plan is another matter, right? Human makes baby in order to acknowledge their own existence. Their offspring is the prove. The family bloodline, tradition, knowledge, and name needs to be inherited, else who are we at the first place?
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post Jul 27 2015, 03:46 PM

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QUOTE(munak991 @ Jul 27 2015, 03:40 PM)
You know, if you think logically.

Bringing baby into this world is the most selfish things ever did in your entire life.

Reason behind, once the baby was born he/she has to fight all the way till the day die.

Born, fighting for survival, disease, pain, fighting to walk and climb

Baby, Fighting to run walk, read, talk and etc

Kid, Fighting to score and getting top grade, if those unfortunate 1, fight for food, fight for shelter and etc

Teen, Fight to get good college or uni, in the stage of either can study or else rot in society

Adult, fighting for social, network, recognition, money, all the thing u can tell

Old, loneliness, fight with sickness and pain etc
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u talk like there's zero happiness at all through out the baby's life... if so, the biggest failure is you as their parent.
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post Jul 27 2015, 04:08 PM

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QUOTE(munak991 @ Jul 27 2015, 03:59 PM)
Happiness yes,

But how much happiness over sadness or struggle?

like 1 year, how many days u spent vacation, rest, do something you like, almost like 4-6% of the time happy...

it is applied those who has time for enjoyment, those who need to give back to their parent and etc. spend <1% happy

Just like TS said, not ready dont get a baby, ull ruined his/her life 4ever
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judging by ur argument, better dun give birth d... even if u are ready and financially stable, life is unpredictable. Many events could suddenly happen that will disrupt ur grand plan.

my opinion is, u are too pessimistic. u are afraid to try, to improve, and most important, to give. do not take away ur offspring chances to learn, to live, and to survive.

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