This is the greatest problem of mankind. I think parents are despicable for bring their kid into this world. They are just selfish people.

Tell me, what is the reason you want to make baby?

People take making baby too lightly, they think they got job got money, get a wife, then can make baby liao.

But guess what? It is not that simple. One mistake when bringing up your kid, the world is fucked up. If you want to make a baby, atleast, for the sake of

mankind, do proper planning. If you dun have 100% confidence it will work, then dun make baby.

I know there many reasons that kids get born into this world. But my point is this, a kid is a blank slate, so innocent, whatever you feed him he is going to become that, just like little Chappie ( love that movie, btw).

That is why I think movie, dramas, etc are so fucked up, they make it look like a simple stuff. Let you see all the happiness when you have baby. But hey people,

FACE the reality la! STOP making babies if you cannot give them a good life. Stop making babies if you are not sure what to do with your life.

Only make baby if you know yourself.

TLDR; Breed, jangan tak breed. tapi Breed wisely lah!
Don't know how to breed wisely? Google it.

It's not about pessimism! It's about whether you deserve to bring a life into a world where you cannot within your capacity give your child the love, support and patience they deserve. It's about whether you WANT to have a child in the first place. Why can't people be happy without having children? Why can't they make decisions based on their own happiness and abilities in order to fulfill their life's desires?

look at kids in africa, in warring countries, you think is their mistake to die poor?

Not everyone have the same privilege, this is fact. We should be thankful we can live in Malaysia where we have choice