QUOTE(edmunz @ Jul 26 2015, 09:10 PM)
capture the heart of future inlaws really hard ka?? just spend money n kaw tim la...
so what to bring when go and see them later? mee goreng mamak?Chat how to tackle future parents in law if, they are racist
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 Jul 26 2015, 10:41 PM
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Jul 27 2015, 12:45 AM
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Kasi bunting le
Lepas cakap nak kawin tapi xda wang Kalo xapprove, kasi tinggal la bro Kalo suda kawin, bawa lari jauh2 |
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Jul 27 2015, 04:55 AM
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QUOTE(androidx8 @ Jul 26 2015, 10:41 PM) so what to bring when go and see them later? mee goreng mamak? Now raya mood lagi.. Bring buah tangan or hamper mahal if u can afford it.. They key point for u to assure them u r financial capable to support ur future wife.. Besides it looks good on ur CV. |
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Jul 27 2015, 05:02 AM
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keep trying unless they have a new candidate for their daughter. move on.
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Jul 27 2015, 05:31 AM
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have a good sense of humour. that the most important thing.
you need to learn to know how to defuse tense situation and to change topic quickly. you need to learn this by watching some of your friends who can do this since live demonstration is the best way to learn it. also be financially successful. |
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Jul 27 2015, 07:47 AM
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TS mamak, eh I mean indian muslim?
All the best. Ive had friends whose parents want same daerah, race of coz want malay. The lady is melei from which state? |
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Jul 27 2015, 08:39 AM
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Just diam...thats all..
Argue with oldies..u ll never win.. U can win but they will hate u |
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Jul 27 2015, 03:56 PM
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QUOTE(hazmine @ Jul 27 2015, 05:02 AM) keep trying unless they have a new candidate for their daughter. move on. trying to.. |
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Jul 27 2015, 03:59 PM
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QUOTE(ahurgan @ Jul 27 2015, 07:47 AM) TS mamak, eh I mean indian muslim? ya i'm indian muslim.. melei from selangor..All the best. Ive had friends whose parents want same daerah, race of coz want malay. The lady is melei from which state? |
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Jul 27 2015, 04:16 PM
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QUOTE(androidx8 @ Jul 25 2015, 11:54 PM) what to do with racist people? why they are racist? Buy a lot of bird nest...... It got power to cure a racist heart  |
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Jul 27 2015, 06:59 PM
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Is that the "real" problem, or is that a mere qualifier in order to root out certain insecurity in the parents' mind?
Communicate and gather more info before decide. Try not to create more scenarios. Later too stressed cannot perform in front of them... + u |
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Jul 27 2015, 07:51 PM
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QUOTE(phillip88 @ Jul 27 2015, 06:59 PM) Is that the "real" problem, or is that a mere qualifier in order to root out certain insecurity in the parents' mind? i'm not sure about that..already stressed now. haha..Communicate and gather more info before decide. Try not to create more scenarios. Later too stressed cannot perform in front of them... + u |
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Jul 27 2015, 07:52 PM
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QUOTE(androidx8 @ Jul 27 2015, 07:51 PM) i'm not sure about that..already stressed now. haha.. then follow the flow... see buddha kill buddha, see demon kill demon. |
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Jul 27 2015, 08:01 PM
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follow the flow..thanks..
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Jul 27 2015, 08:01 PM
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go to hotel, call jais. Ask zpupul which hotel jais rajin come and raid.
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Jul 27 2015, 08:05 PM
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QUOTE(maraippo @ Jul 27 2015, 08:01 PM) go to hotel, call jais. Ask zpupul which hotel jais rajin come and raid. she is not that type of girl. |
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Jul 27 2015, 08:06 PM
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QUOTE(maraippo @ Jul 27 2015, 08:01 PM) go to hotel, call jais. Ask zpupul which hotel jais rajin come and raid. Go shah alam area cnfirm kena jemput jais lagipu dekat dengan masjid shah alam. One stop center.  |
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Jul 28 2015, 06:06 AM
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relationship is about both of you...
as long as you two can make the distance... the parents will follow sooner than later... best of luck bro... make sure nothing come between you guys... especially race |
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Jul 28 2015, 12:58 PM
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perhaps they think u are not capable / good enough to become a good husband ?
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Jul 28 2015, 02:36 PM
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[quote=ReWeR,Jul 26 2015, 04:55 PM]
sad but true [/quote yes indeed, ts dont need to feel sad. racist do exist but u can prove them all wrong at the end and show them o0o when u succeed to climb up the ladder 1 day. |
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