There is such a thing. It's called "moving on". It's not easy to do; but if you can just spend some time thinking 'bout everything that's happened, recalling everything, crying, laughing, then do it. But that's it. After that; stop it already. Find a different focus for your life. I believe you're still young. The world's still ahead of you.

You just need to stop making your world seem so small by focussing it on someone. There are bigger problems ahead. Love yourself by moving on. For how can you love someone else if you can't love yourself?

Age is but a number. Just 'cause you're 27 doesn't mean that your mind has reached that age as well.

No offense, but just as you mentioned; you've never had a girlfriend. Therefore; you're probably inexperienced in love matters. As such; like I mentioned:


Find a different focus man, instead of feeling sorry for yourself. At the age of 27; you should be able to support yourself. So go and find things which you can enjoy and meet people while having fun.

The faster you shift your focus from love to other more important things in life; the faster you shall recover and MAYBE, just maybe, find love again.

Good luck.