you're the exception then, one in a gazillion. it might have been that she's so freakin tired of your "chasing" and just bluntly said yes.

Well... first thing first, give me a high five :')... I was once in your shoe... you know, girl can go close to a guy you know, SO CLOSE that you sometime can even feel that she wants you... but the fact of the matter is this, though it's cruel... GIRL TENDS TO BE SHY IN FRONT OF THE GUY SHE LIKES... girls think a lot, they'll think of how the boy will think of her, will the boy think that she's a slut of something, will the boy notice that she is adorable or something... AND GIRL WILL ACKNOWLEDGE THE FIRST HINT WHICH THE GUY SHE LIKES GIVE HER... so, meaning that, if you wanna know whether she's on to you or not... here's some example:

SHE LIKES YOU
You: Hey, you know, lately I feel that I need you in my life.
Her: Really? Wei ~~ don't play lah... don't sweet talk here la
You: I'm serious... I've been thinking about that lately...
Her: Actually I think you treat me so good that I think I can trust you loh


SHE THINKS THAT YOU'RE HER BEST FRIEND
You: Hey, you know, lately I feel that I need you in my life.
Her: Sure or not?? Me where got good... I very naughty de.
You: I'm serious... I've been thinking about that lately...
Her: Of course you need me lah!! If not ar, who want to listen to your joke, hahahaha!!!

Can see the difference ... You can actually sense it from the first reply... if a girl likes you, she'll be sensitive toward every word that you say... another good example is:


SHE LIKES YOU
You: I just met this girl, wow, she's so wonderful.
Her: Really?? Gong xi gong xi wor!!!
You: Thank you! I'm so happy...
Her: Welcome... why she so special?? Got big eyes ar??

SHE THINKS THAT YOU"RE HER BEST FRIEND
You; i just met this girl, wow, she's so wonderful.
Her: Really?? Gong xi gong xi wor!!!
You: Thank you! I'm so happy....
Her: Happy for you ler... she must be very sexy one right. Of course lah, I know your taste 1.


Hope all this will help everyone here

although true, it doesnt't apply to all..

Hmm, you just let me know how should react if someone does that to me

from my experience, if the girl likes you and you say you are with some other girl or you wana date some other girl, the girl who likes u might make some disparaging remarks to cover up, eg:

"wah, who would want you o?"
"u sure cannot get her one lar, she is so pretty"
etc

just like theories... it doesn't apply to everyone right... but most of the people will find it useful

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Added on November 20, 2010, 4:47 pmhahaha... well, not boasting but I for one who got all those "sorry we are just friend" bullshit all the time... so I more or less tend know what the hell is going to happen by reading the messages

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Added on November 20, 2010, 4:49 pmyup that apply too... but remember, girls won't be that obvious 1... if she's doing that, obviously she is trying to ask you not to tackle her right... you got some good input here too , it's just that, always remember that girl are not obvious 1... they expect you to realise what they are trying to say

This post has been edited by mouse_king: Nov 20 2010, 04:49 PM

Mistake no. 1 is saying such a stupid thing in the first place.

You approach her at the wrong time. You are making the move too fast. I'll do if suddenly a guy i just be-friend suddenly telling me those

The reason why a girl wanna cover up that she actually like that guy was because she doesn't know how you felt for her. You went and telling her that you like another girl in front of her. How do you think she wanna react?? Confess to you when in her mind. she thoughts you really has no interest in her and just a friend to her. THAT'S WHY she's saying those words out.

I were under those circumstances before but what can I do. He clearly shows no interest on me, I can't suddenly blurt to him "I already fall for you. I LOVE YOU". What I'm capable to do is to lie and deny the fact. even though I hate it so much

well... it's just an example ... but normally if you wanna test a girl, this is what you say right...

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Added on November 20, 2010, 8:32 pmwell, at the sametime how can you know whether it's the right time or not?? 1 month can be too fast for some girl while others may say 3 months may be too fast...

yeah, that is to test the girl... you know, confessing is like hinting and guessing game if you don't want to end up in a awkward situation... we purposely confess the feeling in front of you and see your reaction and from there we guess whether you have interest or not...

girls are very complicated and very hard to understand... you girls can appear so friendly and yet you call us Best Friend Forever... you know what's the most hurting thing for guy??... is UNABLE to confess to their girl when you know that you love her very much... we don't wanna spoil the relationship as well... we know that if we confess, the girl will say, "sorry, we are just friend"... then everything will turn awkward, then before we realise, you'll tell us "why don't we just stop talking to each other?"... ain't that suck ???

why don't you suggest on how a guy confess to a girl??


This post has been edited by mouse_king: Nov 20 2010, 08:32 PM

n00b13's thread about the confessing bullshite: DON'T CONFESS, MAKE her FALL for you.

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1111256

Or you can suddenly hug the guy, never let go, and HOPE he's not too stupid to figure out what you're feeling.

That's the reason why I didn't confess.

Suggest?? Follow noob13 advice. Don't confess, make her fall for you and everything will be natural

Hug him?? I have no guts

It's okay not to have guts, but why are you copying whatever I said about n00b13 LOL.

Didn't copy, AGREE. It's true though

Right, every word was the same except for the "natural" part.

Like a Proton Inspira.

LOL, relax. Even if you're at a loss for words.

Personally what I do is I don't date inside my friend circle. Makes for less drama that way I find, and if I can't get the girl things are less awkward.

Isn't it best to search for partners around friends?? You get to know her and know more about her

I see what you mean, you got a point there as well. It's just that I've seen some ugly results happening from this, and so I'm a bit wary of this.

So, Noob13 advice apply. It's just like what he write. You can see whether she/he is interested in you or not, if no, then you can act nothing happened and back to normal mode