too late now young padawan.

i don't know how old you are but i am 30 this year. I have been single for about 4 years now.... why? cuz i am searching for the right one at the right time. My mom keeps on asking me "When are you getting a GF?said her. I am 60 already, she thought" and i am the only child she's got.
No point wasting the time sulking why haven't i get my other half while most of my friends are getting happily married. There is always a better way of life.
Sometimes one think negatively without knowing it and thus you'll keep attracting the negative things into your life.

and to you, she might seem like an angel... but to others she might not be... i've seen many pretty girls is with some fagots but at least they are happy. I believe in your thoughts that if you see a pretty girl and you just knew her not long, you would be thinking that she deserves someone more handsome/smarter than you.... and yes... thats just about it... if everyone think the same like you, then she would have no one....

A girl would go for the faith that the guys have. not the other way round. If its the other way round, it would not be love... it would be PITY...or SYMPATHY...

Edison did failed in his research for 999 times and succeeded 1 time(electricity)... if he had gave up, you wouldn't have electricity... So, what are his thoughts?
he didn't failed... he just found 999 times that didn't work.

so, ask yourself... how many girls have you wooed? 1? start learning... you might find some very interesting fact about ladies...

You black magic on her or what? If yes, I really look down on you.

After all, you're the one who willing to wait and do anything for her. She did not beg you to fall in her.

Heart ache leads to bitter. Bitter leads to anger, and anger definitely leads to hatred. That's all I can say. She didn't beg me to fall? You dun no lah, you weren't there. If not why she say "sayang" me (in person), touch my hand while saying that, stare me in the eye, giving me really really high hopes. In the end, conned me. My time, my money wasted. So yes, I was bitter as hell about it.

Hey dude, no regrets, what done is done

then you are not worth for any girls at all. end of story... Define love.... there are 3 kinds of love you know...

1st kind is Mothers love for their child as their child needed them more than they know it.

2nd kind of love is sibling love... its sort of like care for each other...

3rd kind is couple love.... don't need to say more...

you might have mistaken the 2nd for the 3rd...

pui!! i look down on you. pui!!! pui!!! pui!!!

saying wasting your time and money... face yourself la... how much you have to be wasted? and as for time... from your post, i can feel that you are still young.... which means your journey has just begun.... EXCUSES given by yourself to yourself.

Pui!! PUi!!! puuuiii!!!
it makes me piss of by knowing you did that to her or even more piss off in future if i get to know more..

Lol no need to condemn ppl la. Girl guy relation shouldn't rely so much on money and time.. If hati rela then each side won't need to ask for your money spend on him/her. In fact, he/she will ask you reduce/don't spend at all. After marriage will be different story though.

Go dating doesn't mean need to spend a lot of money, tak bazir mempersiakan $$ and tak kedekut is the best way to go..

This post has been edited by SwooshY: Aug 3 2010, 09:51 PM

Puii me all you can. You don't know the story (from your reply I doubt you read the whole pages). I hope you will never got played like me, because later you will know how bitter, and vengeful you can be. If it was just my money that got conned, I can live with that.

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Added on August 4, 2010, 11:09 amHati rela is one thing, but playing people to suit your benefit is another..

This post has been edited by Evangelistica: Aug 4 2010, 11:14 AM

If i told you that i've walked in your shoes before, but yet i did not allow the bitterness to consume me would you listen?
Would you really listen or have you already decided in your head that you will no longer listen?

I know exactly how you feel, you gave everything - everything and if she asked for you life, you'd give it too wouldn't you?
Yet when things were going well, and you really thought that it was mutual - one fine day you got cut off and casted away.

No reason. No explanations. Just questions in your head wondering what the **** you did wrong, or what did you say, or what you didn't do to result in this?

Am I close to home Evangelistica?

In closing, Hate only destroys the vessel that which it is contained in, not the object that it is directed to.

sad...u make ur own mistakes and bad decisions and judgement...and yet now, you still looking for some1 to blame but yourself..instead of blaming god, hate yourself for being so weak and lame, and of course..a damn fool..please evaluate yourself. You fell for her, you blame her = yawnz..



This post has been edited by jasonbourne222: Aug 4 2010, 01:23 PM

Tatsumaki, i agreed with you... How would you know we didn't go through what you've been through? I would say that it is part of life.

Everyone coping differently in dealing with anger and hatred. Thats why some really really bad people live in this world. Otjherwise, there will be no devil on earth, all is angelic in nature. Now where's the fun in that?

now you are talking.... being devil himself have nothing wrong... but being devil to someone that you used to care about is another...

It's normal for us as humans to justify our actions. No sane person likes to be wrong or be perceived wrong. It isn't my position to say what is right nor wrong, yet my question to you would be, could you have taken another choice than the one you took?

Yes, nothing can be done to undo the past - yet the future and today is still 'mold-able' for lack of better word. Given a choice, would you opt to perhaps make a different decision?

I do believe that deep inside a little part of you acknowledges that in this world of 6 billion people, divide half into women leaving 3 billion males (approximately) there are other males whom experienced similar if not exactly the same experiences you went through.
How did they cope with it?

Hitting the ball closer to home, this isn't just a male exclusively thing. Females also can and have suffered the same type of treatment. How did they cope with it?
Is vengeance really worth it? For what gains Evangelistica, for what gains - vengeance?
Self satisfaction? The pride of life?

The old saying goes, pride comes before a fall - and pride and ego is a byproduct or result of your testosterone hormone. Yes, your pride was injured, your heart broken, your joy taken away, your dreams shattered, your hopes dashed and your feelings betrayed.

But so were the numerous other males and females out of the 6 billion population on this earth.

If others whom were as broken as you were could make different choices, you too have equal chance of making those choices, the deciding factor is whether or not you wish to make that decision?

Are you?

Yes.

May i interest you to the second line of my signature?

Thanks but no.

i didn't read the whole thread but the fact that the girl ffk you, she was seriously mean. how can she do that?

don't root those hatred. hopefully, it'll go away, soon. =)

Dude,i think my life is even worse than you but I am still patient about it.Just accept all the dugaan you have.Sure,you still cant accept it but there is karma.Karma will get her someday.Btw,your thread damn popular woooo

Looking back, my foolishness and naive has a significant part to blame also. I never got close with a female before so I got no experience in that. She saw this and used it for her benefit.

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Added on August 7, 2010, 10:21 amI think karma done its part. I heard she got married but gotten divorced already because her handsome policeman hubby (the one she idolize a lot over me) cheated on her. If what I heard was true then padan muka. Amin.

This post has been edited by Evangelistica: Aug 7 2010, 10:28 AM