women older than guy 15 years is it possible? Anyone got experience? Any problem? Pls share experience

how old is that women and guy?

35 &20

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i oso tak tau macam mane nak jelaskan...
love is love... but most parent tak open sangat...

Not until parent part as dare not think....between 2 persons got problem or not?

Everything is possible. Normally should be the other way round. For man, 20 years old will still have a kids mentality. And most probably he likes the 35 year old women is maybe because the women takes care of him like his mother. How long has they been together. If just a few month, then still cannot see the problems yet. But who knows, sooner or later, there might be or might not be any problems after all.

I am matured guy no need the girl take care me

Then I guess you know best how is your relationship. There is no rules on how old both have to be in order to be in love. Oh and if can, need to prepare for marriage soon. Because women at 35 is nearing the danger zone of having pregnancy complications as they get maturer. Unless if she is not planning to have kids then is okay.

Cheers........

Thk u so much will work hard to win her over

No problem. Good luck and all the best to you....

Cheers...

No offense but it will be tough. Maybe for the first few years it is fine. But perhaps 10 years down the road could you imagine how it would be like. It requires a lot of commitment and effort to put away any issues because of the difference in priorities between the both of you. I advise ts to think properly before starting this relationship as a 35 year old lady might have very different view on relationship than yours. Wish you a blissful relationship if you do consider this as a commitment you are wiping to carry.

Yes indeed view very diff thks 4 ur wishes

Thks i will

Are you the kid dating the woman, or are you the woman dating a kid...?

Anyway, you can ask them:

Two children and ten years of marriage later: Disgraced teacher Mary Kay Letourneau, 53, and her student-turned-lover, 31, who began their relationship when he was just 12 discuss the scandal

At the age of 35, I can think that the woman would want to settle down and have kids quickly.

Whereas for a 20 year old man still have the energy of a bull - want to explore the world. Doing this and that. Taking a lot of risk etc. The wife may not like this attitude

There will be another issue of power wrestle. 35 yo lady will be earning more. The younger man will feel inferior

Just my 20 cents sharing

Why not?

Joan Collins + Percy Gibson: Age difference 35 years (2002)
Juliet Mills + Maxwell Caulfield: Age difference 18 years (1980)

Both happily married till today.

Well, as a woman, I seriously think it will be hard for that woman. No matter how much you love her, she will surely have the impression that you are just being childish. In other word, lack of security. Even though many will tell you, age does not matter, but seriously, it does for women - especially over 30y/o women. Matured women can be very independent, self confident, but the last thing they want is having a much younger bf, where most of the time women will not feel secure with.

However, having to say that doesn't mean that you should give up. At the end of the day, it really depends on both of you. How much you trust each other, how much both of you are willing to put in. I always believe that where there is a will, there will be the way.

I myself have a very tough relationship (not so much on age gap, but more on cultural differences). And throughout the hard journey, I've learned that for all these so called "unique" relationships, couples have to learn ONE very important rule - ignore what others have to say about your relationship, including your families. If you can't do this one rule to begin with, then I would say, GIVE UP on her. Many might not agree on this, but seriously, your families' only wish is for you to be happy. And if you think you are happy with this woman, then sooner or later they will accept her. You see, up until this point, you have to be super duper certain that she is the one. While I might have a second thought sometimes, but I'm lucky because my fiance is super duper confident on our relationship and he has been the one that make me believed that "yeah, there is nothing wrong our uniqueness. People choose what they want."

Like many other commentors here said, it is not going to be an easy journey dude, but if you are certain that she will be the one that will stay on your side, then there are a lot of sacrifices to make.

So to answer your question, YES it is possible, it will work. But then again, I think this should not be the first question you should ask. Instead, ask yourself if this is really what you want and are you going to sacrifice (more than normal couples do - normal couples are easier with the family part) more than you thought you can?

Good luck ^^

This post has been edited by yukilemon: May 7 2015, 03:30 PM

Thks a lot ur advices help a lot

How can i reassured her? She seems little confidence in this relationship