TS, not trying to be negative here..
Have u discuss about your future with her?
Gals are very concern about their future and require a sense of security when it comes to marriage and saying 'Yes' during wedding proposal. Not to mention u may require her to leave her country for your sake.

Like to know more about u and your plans as this may affect whether she say 'Yes' or 'No' in your wedding proposal.
1) After u guys get married, where will u two be staying? Singapore, China or Malaysia?
2) Is she willing to leave her country assuming u two will stay in Singapore?
3) Are u able to give her happiness?
4) Are u a Singapore PR?
5) Do u own a hdb/condo/house? Or are u renting?
6) Can she find a job in Singapore?
7) She can apply for PR if u are a PR but u two cannot buy BTO HDB or resale HDB immediately coz she need to become a PR for 3 years 1st. If u r super rich, mayb u can buy a private estate or condo.
8) What are you plans if she have a baby?

If u already have discuss this with her, then i believe ur wedding proposal should be smooth and u have my blessings.
However wedding proposal and marriage is just the beginning. Most of the problems comes after the marriage..

Glad u have discuss this matter with her..
I will send u a photo (just myself) with my blessings mayb these few days.. Wish u all the best!!!
Btw, i am also on a LDR for 13 years. I am working in Sg and my wife is in KL. We have dated 11 years before we got married 2 years ago. Now i have become a father of two and still in a LDR.
Feel free to Pm me to Yum cha however need to take the public tranport, lol..

This post has been edited by lil_flank: Apr 12 2015, 09:36 PM