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Surgery or not ?
 
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TSTearsFromMe
post Mar 28 2015, 05:08 PM, updated 9y ago

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Okay , if you guys know me , i have a heart problem since birth which doesn't give me much problem but when i am 22yo , my heart give me some problem like chest pain , shortness of breath . Now i am 24yo but my heart still the same , give me problem ... Doctor recommend me to do surgery if i suitable for .

Okay main question is why my dad side family not recommend me to do that angiogram heart test and heart surgery ? They always tell my the risk which make the scare and nervous about it . I know that surgery have risk but (i don't know what to say). They say eat vitamin B can cure the heart rclxub.gif , and my aunty which is a teacher but also tell me need alot of rest and eat healthy food then can okay ... sad.gif . I know my condition so well , i know it can't be cure using vitamin or what nature healing unless its miracle .

So why they not recommend me to do it and what do you guys think (Should i do it or not ?) Poll
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post Mar 28 2015, 05:10 PM

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They love u... Yes they do, coz heart surgery is not small surgery... U might die..
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post Mar 28 2015, 05:12 PM

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Go for 2nd or 3rd opinion from doctors.
Some doctors just wanna earn your money hence recommending surgery.
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post Mar 28 2015, 05:19 PM

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QUOTE(vassilius @ Mar 28 2015, 05:10 PM)
They love u... Yes they do, coz heart surgery is not small surgery... U might die..
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Ok but i might die anytime too , heart enlarged and will suddenly beat so fast and weird , i am so scare and surgery also scare ...

QUOTE(jasonlim1 @ Mar 28 2015, 05:12 PM)
Go for 2nd or 3rd opinion from doctors.
Some doctors just wanna earn your money hence recommending surgery.
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HKL transfer me to Serdang hospital , both say do it better . Even the doctor i used to see him everytime i sick since i was a kid tell my go ijn but i go goverment
SUSHuman10
post Mar 28 2015, 05:19 PM

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Just a question, are you a sporty/active type of person?
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post Mar 28 2015, 05:20 PM

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is this covered by insurance?
TSTearsFromMe
post Mar 28 2015, 05:21 PM

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QUOTE(Human10 @ Mar 28 2015, 05:19 PM)
Just a question, are you a sporty/active type of person?
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Nope

QUOTE(ConstantLove @ Mar 28 2015, 05:20 PM)
is this covered by insurance?
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post Mar 28 2015, 05:23 PM

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QUOTE(TearsFromMe @ Mar 28 2015, 05:21 PM)
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If possible, I think you should try change to a more active lifestyle.

Of course I don't suggest you to directly jump into 100m sprint or so on type of extreme sports.

SOS: A ktard.
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post Mar 28 2015, 05:23 PM

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Family matters, not so convenient to comment. I can't be telling u to ignore their advise since u are 24yo and u should be making ur own decision .

Good luck k.
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post Mar 28 2015, 05:30 PM

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every surgery have its risks, which is why your parents are against it.

most parents love their kids dearly and more than anything else in the world.

if it is not life threatening like you might die in weeks or months if you don't do it, they will probably won't allow it.

if it is just pain, just bear with it.
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post Mar 28 2015, 05:30 PM

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QUOTE(Human10 @ Mar 28 2015, 05:23 PM)
If possible, I think you should try change to a more active lifestyle.

Of course I don't suggest you to directly jump into 100m sprint or so on type of extreme sports.

SOS: A ktard.
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Okay will try 1st

QUOTE(vassilius @ Mar 28 2015, 05:23 PM)
Family matters, not so convenient to comment. I can't be telling u to ignore their advise since u are 24yo and u should be making ur own decision .

Good luck k.
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Okay thanks
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post Mar 28 2015, 05:34 PM

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QUOTE(duckhole @ Mar 28 2015, 05:30 PM)
every surgery have its risks, which is why your parents are against it.

most parents love their kids dearly and more than anything else in the world.

if it is not life threatening like you might die in weeks or months if you don't do it, they will probably won't allow it.

if it is just pain, just bear with it.
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Currently i have skipping beat , chest pain sometime but i worry the most is sudden my heart race over 120bpm (when this happen , i sweat alot , my body become weak , and i scare i pass out)
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post Mar 28 2015, 05:39 PM

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QUOTE(TearsFromMe @ Mar 28 2015, 05:34 PM)
Currently i have skipping beat , chest pain sometime but i worry the most is sudden my heart race over 120bpm (when this happen , i sweat alot , my body become weak , and i scare i pass out)
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I still think you can do some exercise to strengthen your heart further.
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post Mar 28 2015, 05:45 PM

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QUOTE(TearsFromMe @ Mar 28 2015, 05:19 PM)
Ok but i might die anytime too , heart enlarged and will suddenly beat so fast and weird , i am so scare and surgery also scare ...
HKL transfer me to Serdang hospital , both say do it better . Even the doctor i used to see him everytime i sick since i was a kid tell my go ijn but i go goverment
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Ijn also partially gov right? You should do checkup in ijn and see what the doctors say. Talk to your doctors, explore if there any other options. You gotta do research since your heart is at stake here.

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post Mar 28 2015, 05:53 PM

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Angiogram is invasive procedure.

I was supposed to do but couldnt because of other health issues.

There was another procedure non invasive but more expensive. Only available 1 place in msia. I cant remember name off hand but i can check if u interested
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QUOTE(TearsFromMe @ Mar 28 2015, 05:34 PM)
Currently i have skipping beat , chest pain sometime but i worry the most is sudden my heart race over 120bpm (when this happen , i sweat alot , my body become weak , and i scare i pass out)
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but won't die right

as long as you don't drive or run heavy machinery

or do dangerous activities

living a simple life until technology is much better in future, medical advances has been improving faster and faster.

when the risks is very low then only do it
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post Mar 28 2015, 05:56 PM

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You're 22, you decide yourself. And especially relatives, don't listen to them lah!
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post Mar 28 2015, 05:56 PM

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Sorry to be blunt but they probably dun wan to spend all their money on your operation.
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post Mar 28 2015, 05:59 PM

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Why are people telling ts to just bear the pain? One of my classmate die from heart diesease, something to do with her valve. She was weak, and hav shortness of breath. Everyone tot she is just weak, just nid more rest n shud b able to wait until her surgery. SHE DIED WAITING FOR HER HEART SURGERY.

Teachers r not doctors, relatives are not doctors. Do they even know the name of your heart condition? they did any research about it?

Discuss with your doctors, know the risk of your surgery, success rate failure rate, discuss with your parents (no auntie uncle etc etc, your parents are more important), know all the risks. If you wan to go for the surgery, go. But like I said, know the risk, n if u still wan to go for it, b prepared for the worst.
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