You can play the girls lah. You just don't realize it only. The dinner function is the time lor. Choose which one you like, the most LCLY or the most pretty. Ask them yam seng yam seng see what can come out of it lor. They usually at one table since they not family. Ask you brothers come one by one when they warm up to your presence. Play simple games like 1 2 jus, IQ test, or chai mui. Most important is you can win easily or make and change the rules to your favor. If you got a few creative brothers this is easy job. They lose punish them bottoms up. Mabuk already ask them lompat katak ... End of of the session sometimes also the table end leave in pairs.