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post Feb 17 2015, 10:42 AM

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QUOTE(Wassupman @ Feb 17 2015, 10:14 AM)
ahahah typical parents that hoping their child to turn professionals for better living... nothing is wrong or right... most important thing is both parents and child should support each others decision but at times like this, i would have to say the child should listen more to the parents because no matter how the parents would have eaten more salt than the child. however it is not always the right case as some parents might not be that modernize as their child. best solution is for both parents and child sit down and analyze abit and not only that, the child also should try to understand the financial situation but i believe most child will never know or understand this. never and i mean never.
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i think the bigger problem is no one does their bloody homework

parents and child a like, its almost baffling how people chose unis with less work than they choose their cars (maybe its a msian thing)

when a parent tell its kid, eh do this, theres no apparent justification, like those who said be a doc. kid asks why? the reason is "just because". likewise the kid says he wants to be a porn star, parents ask why, he'd answer "just because", no one actually convinces each party with facts why its the right decision. you can smell if someone didnt do homework from a mile away.

theres no numbers to indicate how much a doctor works, what is that kind of life, whats the potential of it, its "just because". lazy and no homework done. likewise the kid has never spent any time pursuing his dream, building connections in the industry he wants to work in etc

then this drags into the unis, parents want kids to go be lawyer without doing their homework, go uni study dy then law degree not recognised. or do doctor come out no houseman position. the yolo swag dreamer goes into a degree he wants, barely passes and wallah no job

then blame everyone

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post Feb 17 2015, 10:46 AM

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QUOTE(katakrabun @ Feb 17 2015, 10:31 AM)
Haha.....but maybe your parents did not have the chance or the financial backing like you do? Maybe they think you have a better chance then them in becoming a doctor? But if you are willing to work hard and succeed in something that you like then why not? But you have to explain to your parents politely and tactfully cos you still need their blessing and their support.
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post Feb 17 2015, 10:46 AM

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QUOTE(+3kk! @ Feb 17 2015, 10:42 AM)
i think the bigger problem is no one does their bloody homework

parents and child a like, its almost baffling how people chose unis with less work than they choose their cars (maybe its a msian thing)

when a parent tell its kid, eh do this, theres no apparent justification, like those  who said be a doc. kid asks why? the reason is "just because". likewise the kid says he wants to be a porn star, parents ask why, he'd answer "just because", no one actually convinces each party with facts why its the right decision. you can smell if someone didnt do homework from a mile away.

theres no numbers to indicate how much a doctor works, what is that kind of life, whats the potential of it, its "just because". lazy and no homework done. likewise the kid has never spent any time pursuing his dream, building connections in the industry he wants to work in etc

then this drags into the unis, parents want kids to go be lawyer without doing their homework, go uni study dy then law degree not recognised. or do doctor come out no houseman position. the yolo swag dreamer goes into a degree he wants, barely passes and wallah no job

then blame everyone

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post Feb 17 2015, 10:49 AM

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QUOTE(nekkidgramma @ Feb 17 2015, 09:35 AM)
You can always go and shoot down cargo planes. With some luck you'll hit gold if not well... what the worse that could happen, right?
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ur perents will die but ur dream stay with u, fucuk parents!
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post Feb 17 2015, 11:12 AM

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QUOTE(katakrabun @ Feb 17 2015, 10:31 AM)
Haha.....but maybe your parents did not have the chance or the financial backing like you do? Maybe they think you have a better chance then them in becoming a doctor? But if you are willing to work hard and succeed in something that you like then why not? But you have to explain to your parents politely and tactfully cos you still need their blessing and their support.
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no diff bro...for me father got money also like no money coz suka hug money punya type wanna save money to become rich laugh.gif

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