But Chow Yuen Fatt still got jobs flowing in spite of people saying that he also got a big hollywood ego.

Sigh, for first time sit at home do nothing..trying to do some work but can't focus. Depression setting in. Haiz...

Err no...sorry if I made you misunderstand what I said. I don't mean you disagree with God's plan. I mean, you disagree to go to Germany to take care of your brother.

I am sure your parents would support whatever decision you make. Hmm I thought Germans are ingrain with the military discipline spirit. Your brother even though at 16 yo should be able to be independent.

Cheer up Tina. Your cambodia trip is round the corner. Just tell your parents what you feel, if you don't feel like going back, they will understand.

Then it would be more costly for you already, Stay in boarding school is not easy you know
Boarding school has a very strict discipline, like you are to switch off your light after certain hours at night and weekends u have only 1 day off

Guys at 16 always want freedom to be alone. Trust me, when I was a teenager I wanted to stay on my own and not have my parents tell me what to do.

Let him stay alone, sure will do house chores one.

Send him to boarding school, no chance of parties haha

No worries, let him grow by himself, he will somehow learn to be independent n responsible. I got a friend who went by his own at 16 to Singapore to take up the Asean scholarship. Today, he is working in China by himself.

Boys will be rebellious if they have an elder sister looking over them.

Send him to boarding school, no chance of parties haha

No worries, let him grow by himself, he will somehow learn to be independent n responsible. I got a friend who went by his own at 16 to Singapore to take up the Asean scholarship. Today, he is working in China by himself.

Boys will be rebellious if they have an elder sister looking over them.

Holiday is the time i go outing..with my ex.

So now home alone...make me feel depress.

I got go watch TV and surf LYN.

Boys at his age only knows about porn, sex and girls. How do I make him go to church?

I can't force him to do so.

Furthermore I am reluctant to return home, not yet anyways, he can study here for 4 years or follow my parents to China (worst case scenario). LEL.

But being away from family can be very lonely and lose family love.

dunno man. sometime watch a movie...reminds me of her. Yesterday I watch Girl Interrupted, then suddenly i remember about her.

Have you been through this kind of thing? Man, love sucks...I always wonder why God created man and woman to love one another. When things work out, its wonderful, but when things fail...the pain is 3 times the enjoyment you felt. Worst, its longer period.

I understand that we need to put God in center of life. But for me, i asking myself, am I chasing something that not exist? am I just sentimental and my requirements are unrealistic?

For me, to marry I have to have chemistry with the girl of my dreams...I want to be in cloud nine, yah, whenever we have differences we have to discuss and solve it, if we have arguments, both of us become even closer.

However, nowadyas I face world of realism. Is it true to marry someone, you don't have to feel chemistry for her? Just marry like that ah? Then slowly hope the chemistry to build up? I find always a mismatch. The girl I like, she don't like me.

Always like this, everytime i get into a rship, I like the girl but the girl slowly feeling disatisfied of me until break up due to incompatibility.

Yes I stopped chasing then I waited 9 years for the next to come. I was so excited I thought she was the one, but she didn't think I was the one for her. So naturally she dumped me.

I feel a natural challenge to my faith. I have to trust in God no question of that. If Abraham can trust God for 80 years before Sarai can bear his child, I have to do the same.

Ya know, it ain't easy...its very challenging. We got to wait upon the Lord. I can say I am only human, I suffered many failures upon failures..the light at end of tunnel still not showing.

If watching over him and too much control, he may become more rebellious and not listen.

Let him fly like an eagle and find his own wings?

Well boys will be boys.

Slowly encourage him and be supportive. Do pray for his growth. Course of time he will grow and mature.

Am sure your parents will work something out for both u and ur brother.

Do something else to take your mind off her. There are plenty of good movies that have been released. Download and watch them.
The stuff you're accusing your brother of seems like they've happened before.

You can't force him to go to church if he doesn't want to, it doesn't work that way.

Send him to boarding school seems like the best option so far if you want to avoid him from committing debauchery.

He stay with your relatives in Germany?

Yeah tell them that you can't always be there for him forever, he got to learn to be independent. I remember when I first left to Australia to study at 17, I was very happy, first time enjoy fruits of freedom. I learn many things on my own, like cleaning house, cooking and shopping for groceries.

You went to Malaysia to be independent, LoL.

how come you got Vic Secret catalogue?

Throw the catalogues away lah...then get those National Geographic magazines with mummy corpse pictures, in his room, he sure get turn off.

For me, Asian families don't usually say "I love you" to each other...we just show our appreciation by helping our folks.

Wah ur bro so desperate, Vic Sec catalogue also excited

You not Asian meh

Well you have a first introduction on how boys behave.

Half or not, you still got Asian blood.

My heart is too weak to take a tear jerker.

Ang pow in Malaysian Ringgit haha...banana currency now.

Oh so you living with your uncles n aunties? Must be very big house.

CNY is time to play blackjack and cho tai ti...one card RM10...used to bet with my friends.

Sigh, i am going to experience a very quiet CNY.