Hello!

In a relationship where it involves a minimum of 16 hours flight just to see each other, 1~3 hours car drive? I WILL BE JUMPING IN PURE JOY!

on certain days like this, LDR really sucks because all I want to do is curl up beside my significant other and just sleep!

yeah I know right!

Then you really need to talk with your partner about this lo. Whether it's a matter of feelings or planning, you could open up the subject and start. Or question yourself, why? and how come?

Welcome and stay strong and in love!

So sorry to hear that.

Don't worry, everything seems extra hard right now but you will get through it. I find that sports really help megatons during heartbreaks. Well, it keeps you busy one thing for sure, it makes you extra tired so that you get some sleep because your brain won't even have the energy to think! And best of all, if you keep doing it, you will get fit, healthy and feel good about yourself!

How long is your relationship?

We try to stay connected with each other for as long as we can whenever we are free.

The thing i like about LDR is it's really a test of faith, trust and communication between two people. When you are in a committed LDR that you both agree to work through it, one really gets a very good chance to truly know the partner, because you talk damn a lot! Sometimes I do see other couples having meals on the same table, and just playing with their mobile phones/food and not just talk with each other, which is kinda sad cause some people don't realise how hard and precious relationships can be,, and they take for granted. With all that said, I do envy those who can be with their significant other 24hours/7, because in my LDR, we are very emotionally connected, but I do miss the physical part of it. You know, just having the other person there to lean onto, during bad and good days.

I am sorry to hear that. This is something that you need to have a real talk with him, like a set a timeline and agree to speak your heart. Communicate your needs, and listen to his.

I really wonder how those people in the past handle LDR, with all the wars and etc, and only with letters to communicate, even letters could go missing! Talk about dedication, commitment and pure trust!

Erm, you kinda miss the whole point. If travelling is going to damage your "assets", then opt for bus, train or even plane? Regardless, it's easy for you to meet your other half. And many of the LDR couples here probably don't see each other every weekend. So you complain about your damages here, don't make sense at all.