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Serious ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 13:::..., The LDR Fellowship and Advice Thread

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kesvani
post May 7 2020, 03:40 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Dec 3 2019, 03:04 AM)
If you have to travel to see each other (meaning you're not in the same city/town), then yes it's LDR.
lol well, you'd definitely run out of things to talk about if you talk every day smile.gif
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Me and my foreign GF barely 3km on each other house but feel like LDR. She work as maid so cannot come out. Currently we video call oly on weekend as weekday cannot use phone. After MCO she told me to visit her boss house on every weekend. DAMM awkward as her boss also my customer and also curi curi meet her before few times.
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post May 14 2020, 10:43 PM

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QUOTE(Oklahoma @ May 13 2020, 11:41 AM)
We are young, early 20s who are focusing on our careers sad.gif

I cant relocate to her place nor does she...
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money/career over relationship, i see this relation going no where

QUOTE(Oklahoma @ May 13 2020, 11:40 AM)
Long term is to marry of course

Man damn either of us wouldn't budge because we put career ahead of anything, I cant just find work in Sabah all of a sudden if she's posted there
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If she willing to support you financially they move with her unless you jenis maruah tercabar type
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post Jan 22 2023, 12:28 AM

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QUOTE(whatislyfe @ Jan 17 2023, 05:41 PM)
Hi Sifus,


Recently, our argument always related to what happen after marriage, will I be still in SG? or MY? Personally, I never think of staying in SG until I die, but I still plan to build myself up in SG at least until 40+ years old ish. But then her concern would be what is the point of marrying, having kids, but I working in SG, while she take care of the kids and stuff (which she mention that she is scare of this as well).



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This enough to show money is more important to you than family whether current or future family. What is there to build in other country other than money or career. If you go country like Africa Bhutan then can believe lah your want to build youself spiritually

 

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