Discord has a phone app and there is an LYN server on it
Whatsapp is a bit personal, don't you think? exchanging phone numbers?

Penang & KL considered long or short ?

I got some information from one of her rl friend which i cant 100% confirm if its legit or not and found out that alot of things my "ex-gf"  told me were actually lies. I actually get kinda mad and hurt. But I've been thinking for awhile, and decided to tell her that lets get back to be just normal friend, i hope thats the best course of action and probably i would feel better and get over it sooner.

How often do you guys contact each others? Im having problem which i want to contact him every hour.. if not im feel alone.. except during sleeping.

The thing i like about LDR is it's really a test of faith, trust and communication between two people. When you are in a committed LDR that you both agree to work through it, one really gets a very good chance to truly know the partner, because you talk damn a lot! Sometimes I do see other couples having meals on the same table, and just playing with their mobile phones/food and not just talk with each other, which is kinda sad cause some people don't realise how hard and precious relationships can be,, and they take for granted. With all that said, I do envy those who can be with their significant other 24hours/7, because in my LDR, we are very emotionally connected, but I do miss the physical part of it. You know, just having the other person there to lean onto, during bad and good days.

reporting in since my first serious relationship since August 2017.

proposed for marriage but there's a lot of uncertainties and doubts growing within my gf/fiancee as we're both very different individuals and my financial status is not at a comfortable level to most girls and definitely not to her as she's financially much stronger than i am.

i definitely want to pull through this even though it is very difficult.

as justnits mentioned on the previous version, 168km is actually quite short, but at the same time, every weekend traveling has definitely put some strain to my already weak financial capabilities.

very possible, we both fairly matured working adults after all, and both in the same IT industry so we understand how hectic it can be at times. Just that i believe our relationship is still very young  (since August 2017) so we probably still in that honeymoon stage and we both wanting to meet each other a lot.
Things toned down a huge notch after i proposed and we got engaged, maybe because of the things happening around me, and her being worrisome by nature. (having doubts of marrying me)

i'm mostly (almost always) the guy doing the traveling, probably cuz im a guy but i dont mind anyways since i really love driving/riding anyways lol
yes we are very well aware of our financial status, can say she's the finance minister already 

Thanks for asking! it really depends on how defines fully recovery.
my implant is permanent, and according to doctors who have no idea themselves, my pain seems permanent as well.
and yes i am still in pain to this very second as i am typing this post, be it sleep, laying down/sit/standing anything, there will be constant nagging pain at my back, and it gets worse as i move any muscle involving my upper torso/neck (which means just about any activity lol)

technically only paid once, and thats fully paid by insurance. unless you count the occasional pain relieves like salonpas/yokoyoko lol
but naw my condition isnt a problem in our relationship.
we've been living together since our 3rd date (only weekends, obviously) and needless to say there's no way to hide a super long scar lol.

Same here. I learned this in a hard way with my ex and my current gf. My ex dumped me because of my family financial status BUT not big of a deal because it is all sorted out. Whereas for my current gf, she earns more than me due to her higher qualification but she loves me dearly for who I am.

It's a stark contrast from my past and current experience.